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Pregnancy Check In

Sorry, no due date list today.  I've got a headache.  I guess that's my pregnancy update, I'm getting headaches now for the first time in my life. Other than that things are progressing.  I can't believe I'll be 18wks tomorrow which is basically 1/2 way there for the average twin pregnancy!
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Re: Pregnancy Check In

  • Wow! Way to hit the halfway with two little babies! Good for you. :

    I'm great, as noted below. A little sick of aches, heartburn, rough sleeping, and too many doc appointments, but it is so close to a break from all that is old and a crash course is something new. Yay!

    CageyMack
    37, married to my favorite person in the world, DW! One darling surfer-girl (12) and one darling, sweet boy born 3/16/13.

    5/2013 Started TTC #3, DW's turn: 5/2013: Diagnostics (shg) and surgery (polyp rem.) for best chances. July-Oct: IUI # 1-4, medicated, monitored, triggered.  All BFN. IVF in Jan May. Sheesh. Whoop! IVF#1 cycle started 4/2/14. 5/1: 19 eggs retrieved, 8 matured, ICSI'd.  4 fertilized.   Only 2 to transfer/freeze stage. 5/6: Two embryos transferred. 5/15: Beta #1 9dp5dt is 134! BFP! 5/19: Beta #2 13dp5dt is 672! B'erFP! 5/21: Beta #3 15dp5dt is 1853.  Yay!


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker



    "Things separate from their stories have no meaning. They are only shapes. Of a certain size and color. A certain weight. When their meaning has become lost to us they no longer have even a name. The story on the other hand can never be lost from its place in the world for it is that place.” ― Cormac McCarthy, The Crossing

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  • So sorry about the headaches!!!

     

    I am super battling morning sickness (although I know it could be worse), especially for the last week. It's pretty much constant and I totally threw up in front of a coworker in our parking garage. I literally couldn't help it! It was weird/awful. I'm just eating what I think I can get down for now. Dr. Appt in the morning for an u/s and I'm sure I'll be giving up some of my blood for something as well. I'm hoping to released to the regular OB tomorrow too!  S is so awesome to me and really helping out with some of my usual chores/responsibilities. She's also been very helpful when I get sick too. I'm very thankful.

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  • Its a boy!! or at least 99 sure its a boy
    We had our anatomy scan this morning, and according to the tech everything looked 'normal'. We have to wait for the final results from a radiologist, but it was good to see that little 4 ventricled heart, kidneys and umbilical cord doing what they need to do.
    In other news, I nearly gave v heart failure this week by jumping up out of my chair and screaming loudly while we were watching tv. I had my hand on my tummy and he had kicked me really hard. Because I wasn't focusing on my belly it really startled me. Very funny though!
    I'm sorry to hear about the headaches and sickness! Sending some calm and healing thoughts your way.
    IUI #1 - 10 April 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #2 - 05 May 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #3 - 05 July 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #4 - 30 August 2012 medicated and monitoredLetrozole and Ovidrel Trigger 
    IUI #5 - 27 September 2012 Letrozole 
    BFP! 9 October 2012 Betas:- 12DPO 16; 16DPO 96; 18DPO 315

    Baby Alarico born on 28 June 2013!!


  • I'm doing really well. Entering the second tri, the nausea is behind me (knock wood), my fatigue is lifting a bit in that I can skip a nap and sleep early instead, and my overall energy (and ahem sex ahem drive) is returning.

    We've registered for our out-of-hospital childbirth education series, and we just need to make a decision on our midwife. One major set-back to our budget is that we need a new furnace - not cool. On the plus side though, C got a promotion to a new position that means a high increase in our income that came just at the right time for the pregnancy and this homeowner expense.

    Met 07/07/05, Wedding 07/07/07, Legal Marriage Ceremony 12/9/12, Baby Boy Born 08/09/13 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm late to the party this week, but things are going okay here - baby boy is still inside, so that's good!

    I've had mixed success with the working from home gig.  I can't honestly say that it has reduced my stress level at all, which was the point, but it has definitely reduced my activity level.  I have an appointment on Thursday and we'll reassess at that point.  For now, I'm just going to try to enjoy being in the house that I simultaneously love and am frustrated by.  And I'll do my best to take advantage of making those hours NOT spent commuting count by getting stuff done!

    I can't believe how close I'm getting.  And I can't believe the lack of progress on all of those things that we were supposed to get "Taken care of" before the birth.  Hah!  I fully anticipate that we will STILL have a harder time getting the dog down at night than we will the baby.  Ah well.  It's my life, I'd better love it!

     

    Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10 
    TTC since 6/11
    Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
    Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
    Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
    Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN 
    Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
    Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13

    On to #2, are we crazy?
    IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP!  Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
    Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat.  Say hello to Sticky Ricki!

     

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  • Hi all! Nice to see all your updates.

    Overall things are good here except I caught a wicked cold on a flight the other day and am missing modern medicine. Home remedies are helping - and of course I will survive.

    I did have a tiny bit of a bleeding scare last night. I called my midwife right away and she told me that the blood vessels on your cervix (and, incidentally, your nose) get big and can pop with pressure. Which lead her to ask if I'd been coughing a lot...and I have. So she said, in the absence of other symptoms of a m/c, we'd just chock it up to that. And, no blood since. Phew.

    It was a sobering moment, I've just been so positive that this baby wants to be born...I felt really scared and vulnerable - J was out at the gym so I was alone. Thankfully our midwife was on it, called back immediately,was reassuring but honest, responsive, not rushed, and empathtic. That was nice to see in action :) It definitely solidified our decision.

    We have our NT scan on Friday and we are getting the Cell-Free DNA screening (like the Materni21 test) mostly because J is so flipping antsy to know the gender. I am not super concered with genetic issues since we used a young, sparkle-pony donor egg. If all goes well, we will know the gender of our baby in a couple/few weeks. I would've been happy to be team green, but I am excited for J to know since it is so important to her!

    We are getting legally married on April 20th! We are getting a giant question-mark shaped pinata and filling it with either blue or pink for the kids to break open at the reception and reveal the baby's gender to all! Though, we aren't sure how we will manage to keep it secret until then from our moms/sisters who are antsy to know! But I am determined!

    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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    2Mamaz- what a fun and exciting way to share the news!!! Congratulations on the upcoming wedding/marriage!! 

    Thanks! I'll be 21 weeks and originally we thought we'd find out that week at our A/S scan and I was going to be in the dark too, J was going to stuff the pinata...but her holding that secret for 7-8 weeks seemed impossible. So we'll know but no one but no one else will. We're excited!

    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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