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Intro, I talk a lot!

Hello! I've been lurking for a bit and getting a feel for this group. I've read the rules and think I can be a good girl. I have no plans to just run through here. My signature says it all but I usually post from my phone and can't see any signatures. Still can't figure out how to add pictures, even with the directions, and I'm considered the tech guru at work! Eyes roll. I'll keep working on it, but for now I'm thinking my long history will help me be recognizable.
Anywho, after almost 3 years of TTC and 3 ivf's in the past 6 months alone, we finally had our BFP in early November but learned of the miscarriage the day after Christmas, I was supposed to be 8w6d. My edd was Aug 1st. We are switching re's and giving my body a medical break. We are trying on our own a bit but only since I can't give up a few months this just might happen. Ovulation and periods are textbook normal so I even know what day to pee on a stick to get a positive and when I won't. Not sure how much of that will change now. I think I have a progesterone issue, among a few other things here and there that have made this nearly impossible for us but I just can't give up on this yet. Our last Ivf proved that the eggs fertilized naturally, so that was a relief but with my age and meds I should have had more retrieved. I've been through all kinds of tests and hope a new RE can give us some answers. I feel my current RE can not because he is at fault for some of the issues this last round, that is its own chapter. I'm kinda a posting wh0re. I'm on IF forum for all the treatments, miscarriage board but it is getting difficult to read all the sad stories coming in daily and starting to make me feel like everyone who gets pregnant loses the baby! I never made it over to the aug board but was on PAIF a short period of time. I look forward to chatting more and responding to posts and being part of a huge support system. I hope I don't get to know many of you here but if you are here for awhile or have been, hello and I will be too!!

I'm 33 DH is 36 
Married 6/27/2009 Together since 10/22/2005

TTC since 8/2010 (off BCP since 8/2009) 
Unexplained Infertility
8/2011, 1/2012, 3/2012 IUI #1-3 BFN 
6/2012 IVF#1 BFN, 8/2012 IVF#2 FET BFN, 11/2012 IVF#3 BFP

12/10/2012 U/S #1 6w4d - heartbeat  EDD 8/1/13 
12/26/2012 U/S #2 8w6d - No more heartbeat, MMC; D&C; Chromosome testing normal; male :( RPL testing normal 
4/3/2013 DX Asherman's Syndrome caused by D&C, hysteroscopy done
June 2013 IVF #4 planned 
5/12/2013 SURPRISE BFP! Natural cycle 
7/11/2013 Panorama results Normal!!! Team Pink, partial previa moved up in 2nd tri
9/5/13 (19w) AS scan shows short cervix, 2.5 cm 9/19 (21w)  Cervix is worse 1.87cm, bed rest 
10/26 & 10/27 steroid shots 
12/19 (35w) DX: SGA Baby went from 57% percentile to 18th percentile in 6 weeks. Weekly BPP and NST until she is here. 
1/17/18 Growth scan puts Abby below 10th percent in size, low amniotic fluid, and less movement. Time to induce!

1/18/14 2:11am Abigial Morgan is here! 5lbs 14oz and 18 inches of pure cuteness!!!

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Re: Intro, I talk a lot!

  • Hello from a fellow Baster!  I am so sorry for your loss and all you've been through.  I also had an IVF BFP in November and m/c in December.  I hope your new RE does the trick.
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

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  • Ball.and.chain!!!! Hate seeing you here and was so sad about your loss! If I remember correctly, you were the first BFP for November, I was so excited for you, and slightly jealous, and was so heartbroken when you became a turkey angel!!! My loss was after the final post so I was left as a BFP. Blah! Glad to see a familiar face over here, and sadly sure there are more from the few forums I'm on.

    I'm 33 DH is 36 
    Married 6/27/2009 Together since 10/22/2005

    TTC since 8/2010 (off BCP since 8/2009) 
    Unexplained Infertility
    8/2011, 1/2012, 3/2012 IUI #1-3 BFN 
    6/2012 IVF#1 BFN, 8/2012 IVF#2 FET BFN, 11/2012 IVF#3 BFP

    12/10/2012 U/S #1 6w4d - heartbeat  EDD 8/1/13 
    12/26/2012 U/S #2 8w6d - No more heartbeat, MMC; D&C; Chromosome testing normal; male :( RPL testing normal 
    4/3/2013 DX Asherman's Syndrome caused by D&C, hysteroscopy done
    June 2013 IVF #4 planned 
    5/12/2013 SURPRISE BFP! Natural cycle 
    7/11/2013 Panorama results Normal!!! Team Pink, partial previa moved up in 2nd tri
    9/5/13 (19w) AS scan shows short cervix, 2.5 cm 9/19 (21w)  Cervix is worse 1.87cm, bed rest 
    10/26 & 10/27 steroid shots 
    12/19 (35w) DX: SGA Baby went from 57% percentile to 18th percentile in 6 weeks. Weekly BPP and NST until she is here. 
    1/17/18 Growth scan puts Abby below 10th percent in size, low amniotic fluid, and less movement. Time to induce!

    1/18/14 2:11am Abigial Morgan is here! 5lbs 14oz and 18 inches of pure cuteness!!!

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  • Thanks mattsgirl2004! Looking forward to the support and sharing some of my support with all of you!

    I'm 33 DH is 36 
    Married 6/27/2009 Together since 10/22/2005

    TTC since 8/2010 (off BCP since 8/2009) 
    Unexplained Infertility
    8/2011, 1/2012, 3/2012 IUI #1-3 BFN 
    6/2012 IVF#1 BFN, 8/2012 IVF#2 FET BFN, 11/2012 IVF#3 BFP

    12/10/2012 U/S #1 6w4d - heartbeat  EDD 8/1/13 
    12/26/2012 U/S #2 8w6d - No more heartbeat, MMC; D&C; Chromosome testing normal; male :( RPL testing normal 
    4/3/2013 DX Asherman's Syndrome caused by D&C, hysteroscopy done
    June 2013 IVF #4 planned 
    5/12/2013 SURPRISE BFP! Natural cycle 
    7/11/2013 Panorama results Normal!!! Team Pink, partial previa moved up in 2nd tri
    9/5/13 (19w) AS scan shows short cervix, 2.5 cm 9/19 (21w)  Cervix is worse 1.87cm, bed rest 
    10/26 & 10/27 steroid shots 
    12/19 (35w) DX: SGA Baby went from 57% percentile to 18th percentile in 6 weeks. Weekly BPP and NST until she is here. 
    1/17/18 Growth scan puts Abby below 10th percent in size, low amniotic fluid, and less movement. Time to induce!

    1/18/14 2:11am Abigial Morgan is here! 5lbs 14oz and 18 inches of pure cuteness!!!

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  • Welcome.  I'm sorry for your loss.  Good luck with your new RE.

    TTC Since 8/2011
    BFP #1 5/13/12 * EDD 1/24/13 * MC at 7 wks 4 days on 6/11/12
    BFP #2 5/13/13 * Current EDD 1/23/14

    Baby N born 2/8/14


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  • So sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board hope all goes well with your new RE.

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  • I'm sorry for your loss, but welcome.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope the new RE goes well. Welcome to the board.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Good luck with the RE switch.
    TTC #1 since 10/2010 RE consult 6/2011 PCOS (known) MFI IVF #1 w/ICSI 2/2012 BFP TRIPLETS our angels grew wings at 19.5 weeks 6.25.12 IVF #2 2/2013 Sono shows tissue Hysteroscopy needed Changing RE www.chasingstarsisbettertogether.com Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers ~~~all welcome~~~
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    Ball.and.chain!!!! Hate seeing you here and was so sad about your loss! If I remember correctly, you were the first BFP for November, I was so excited for you, and slightly jealous, and was so heartbroken when you became a turkey angel!!! My loss was after the final post so I was left as a BFP. Blah! Glad to see a familiar face over here, and sadly sure there are more from the few forums I'm on.

    Yup.  After feeling like the BFN girl on the LGBT Parenting board, I was so proud to be the first Baster BFP.  How depressing.

    There's an IF check in here at the end of the week.  You should join!

    What are your next steps, or are you waiting to work things out with the new RE?  I am hoping to do a FET in March.

    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

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  • I am so sorry for your loss and welcome


     6/09 right tube loss (fallopian torsion) 12/09 BFP #1 (DD born 9/10)
    8/12 dx Lupus (ANA+/APA-), 12/12 BFP #2  natural m/c 6w 2d 
    TTC#2  since 9/12  50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #1 Beta 10/4=BFN
                                 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #2 Beta 11/1= BFN
                                      100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #3 Beta 12/26=BFFN
    100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #4 Beta 2/14= BFFN
    Took a LONG Break
    Lots of Luck and Love BFPB for life KOFMKG
  • Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you find success with your new RE.
      Blessed Mama to the sweetest boy in the world (11/9/13), one angel baby, and two fur babies: Mattie Dog and Stanley Cat.
  • Thanks ball and chain, I will check in with IF. No current plans other than just trying on our own for the time. We don't have any frozen and want to meet with a new RE to find out if we should try iui a few more times with what we now know or just save up money for another Ivf. I hate waiting but I'm hoping we can do a fresh cycle this coming summer but might need to wait until the end of the year. I hope you have better luck with your FET cycle!!!!!!

    Thanks everyone for the warm welcome!!

    I'm 33 DH is 36 
    Married 6/27/2009 Together since 10/22/2005

    TTC since 8/2010 (off BCP since 8/2009) 
    Unexplained Infertility
    8/2011, 1/2012, 3/2012 IUI #1-3 BFN 
    6/2012 IVF#1 BFN, 8/2012 IVF#2 FET BFN, 11/2012 IVF#3 BFP

    12/10/2012 U/S #1 6w4d - heartbeat  EDD 8/1/13 
    12/26/2012 U/S #2 8w6d - No more heartbeat, MMC; D&C; Chromosome testing normal; male :( RPL testing normal 
    4/3/2013 DX Asherman's Syndrome caused by D&C, hysteroscopy done
    June 2013 IVF #4 planned 
    5/12/2013 SURPRISE BFP! Natural cycle 
    7/11/2013 Panorama results Normal!!! Team Pink, partial previa moved up in 2nd tri
    9/5/13 (19w) AS scan shows short cervix, 2.5 cm 9/19 (21w)  Cervix is worse 1.87cm, bed rest 
    10/26 & 10/27 steroid shots 
    12/19 (35w) DX: SGA Baby went from 57% percentile to 18th percentile in 6 weeks. Weekly BPP and NST until she is here. 
    1/17/18 Growth scan puts Abby below 10th percent in size, low amniotic fluid, and less movement. Time to induce!

    1/18/14 2:11am Abigial Morgan is here! 5lbs 14oz and 18 inches of pure cuteness!!!

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  • I am sorry for you loss.  Welcome to the board!  
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  • I am so sorry for your loss and your troubles.  Welcome to the board.  I hope your stay is short and sweet. 
    Mother to 3 angels: D&C May 2006 - My cherry blossom child. TTC since March 2012. BFP March 2012; CP March 2012 - 4 weeks 1 day. BFP July 8, 2012; No HB August 6, 2012 - 8 weeks 2 days. M/C August 21, 2012. Cremated in our backyard 5 days later. Starting charting 10/29/12. Stalk me at My Ovulation Chart
  • I'm so very very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.
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  • Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your stay here is short.

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + cytotec.
    Currently TTA until Fall 2013, waiting for operative hysteroscopy
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