DD re-posted for your reading pleasure

I guess that was not mud since it was dd.  and what a crazy one!  I just had to save it bc I knew we would be seeing a DD.  If you can bear the wall-o-text here it is:   

" Complications about us moving in! Please give your input

 So my fianc? and I are planning on moving in together since we're having a second child together. His only option is that we live at his moms place. She has a 2 story house with 4 bedrooms and 2 1/2 bathrooms. His parents and little brother have are in one room, he has an uncle in another, and his grandmother just came from Mexico to live in one room. I did live there before but because of some issues I left, but we'll get back to that in a minute. My fianc?s room was too small for the three of us but we still managed to stay there. Now back to the issues... His mom always expected me up in the morning but I never woke up in the mornings because I would be up all night with the baby... Then his mom would always tell me one thing like "Hey you can do whatever you want to do want... Make yourself at home because this is your home now... you can have whoever you want over but curfew for them is 9 pm..." and so on and so forth but then she would go and tell my husband the complete opposite! So because of miscommunication, or whatever it was, me and my fianc? would always get into arguments because he didn't want to get in trouble by his family. Also whenever I would talk to my family my future MIL would always listen in on my conversations... The only way I knew she would was because she would sk me about them later! With the baby she was too controlling! She kept hovering all over me wouldn't let me do anything on my own so I would learn! Another thing she would do was put on layers of clothing on her I get that she was a newborn but my baby would sweat all night because of it! Then when I told her I wasn't coming to her house after I was discharged from the hospital because I wanted to go to my house so I can heal up and my mom can do home remedies on me for like 3 weeks she got pissed off at me! Anyways... I don't have an issue with his family but the stuff they did while I lived with them made me see a different side to them... So his option is to live with his mom ever since she gave him this brilliant idea of us living there rent free! I know his family they will throw that in his face later which I don't want because it'll only ruin his relationship with his family and he will take it out on me (It happened the first time). Another thing I'd like to add is that he didn't have a job and kept holding off on looking for one... So why I moved out was to give him an ultimatum that in order for me to move back in with him he needed to find a job. Which he started doing but his family started saying things about me to him. Like, " You may be looking for a job but how do you know she's going to move back in with you... Watch she's going to expect more out of you when you do find a job!" Now that I've been asking him for our own place he's always like "See my family is right about you, you always want more because your ungrateful!" Now it doesn't hurt me when he says that just because his family's put that **** in his head. Anyways I told him that I would rather live with my mom or that we get our own place Since we're going to have 2 kids. My moms place would be an easy place to live with a good amount to pay for rent and some bills, it would be a little less then renting a 2 bedroom apartment. He gets along with my mom and dad great! They treat him like their own son and love having him around. My mom cooks his favorite dishes and my dad always invites him out to the movies when he goes with my little brother. He's Hispanic and I'm Indian, but we always watch Indian movies together! We even go to the Indian movie theater to watch all the new Indian movies. We go to lots of Indian events whenever there's something going on... All that stopped when were living at his moms house like we were always separated. When we did anything it was always separated. I didn't even go over to my moms place and I lived 5 minutes away just because his mom always planned something for all of us to do but never went through with it so we were always stuck at the house watching cable! Anyways what do you guys think is he scared to hold up such a big responsibility? Since to him paying for anything has always been his phone bill and babys diapers!? Should I even consider living at his moms house again? Am I overreacting to what has happened with my past living experience at their house? What would you do?"