Spotting : UPDATED again...

jeannaqueena · February 2013

Looks like IVF 2 is a bust. This is about the same time I started spotting last time I think....we are broke, broken hearted and heart broken.nbsp;UPDATE: BFN this morning. I feel like this is what it is. nbsp;nbsp;

See post way below for 11am update.

SigmundsGirl · February 2013

Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry. I'll keep praying for you.

Jen071407 · February 2013

I'm so sorry. Keeping my fx and sending so many positive thoughts your way!

lmielocl1 · February 2013

I am so sorry!!!

KristyLynn26 · February 2013

Oh Hun I'm so sorry but please hang in there. You're not out yet and I'm still praying this is your cycle. ((HUGS))

nawlinsgrl · February 2013

Oh no! Everything has been going so well, I can't believe it's stopping now. I'm absolutely crushed, sad, and angry that you are experiencing this right now,

Like Kristy, I'm still holding out hope it's just a cruel joke. FWIW, I had some brown spotting the day I got my BFP, so truly hoping it's the same for you.

Sending all kinds of T&P your way, and keeping FX for a good outcome.

jeannaqueena · February 2013

Nawlins I wish it was brown spotting, it is pink and some red clots. DH wants me to POAS tomorrow.

I haven't told him but I am not going to my exBFF who is a fertile every time first try's sons 1st bday party.

I will update in the AM, thanks for all the thoughts.

egsquared · February 2013

Oh no! I responded in the post below before I noticed this one. Holding out hope for you that tomorrow brings good news! ((hugs))

HairStylinWifey · February 2013

This breaks my heart and makes me so upset for you. I am so sorry.

nawlinsgrl · February 2013

jeannaqueena:
Nawlins I wish it was brown spotting, it is pink and some red clots. DH wants me to POAS tomorrow. I haven't told him but I am not going to my exBFF who is a fertile every time first try's sons 1st bday party. I will update in the AM, thanks for all the thoughts.

I was hoping it wasn't that color, but will still hold out hope for now, like everyone else.

I think staying home tomorrow (I assume that's the party you've been talking about) is a good idea. During IVF #1, I was supposed to go to a shower where two other women attending, who I didn't even know, were also pregnant, and I just couldn't get it together enough emotionally to attend. I was able to explain it later to the guest of honor (and it turned out her sister, who was one of the pregnant ladies, had IF issues and needed IVF too), and she totally understood.

In your case, I wouldn't bother with a real explanation, just claim the flu or something. I firmly believe when it comes to all this stuff, we have to put ourselves first. It's hard enough as it is to have to suffer.

I finally took a bit of a stand this week for IF'ers, and told a fertile (she did have to use Clomid once to get pregnant, but got pregnant without trying the 2nd time) how things she said and did during my first pregnancy really bothered me, since she already made comments that were hurtful unknowingly recently, and had I not been pregnant, it would have been even worse.

There's a post about it over on SAIF if you want to see the details. My point is, I strongly believe we have to do what it takes to protect ourselves. We are tougher than most, but we still feel the pain. (((((HUGS)))) to you!

ammare · February 2013

I'm so very sorry.

74dragonfly · February 2013

Oh no. I will keep praying for you.

CeCe8579 · February 2013

I am so sorry! Hugs!

Kaselleck · February 2013

Thinking of you

nawlinsgrl · February 2013

Jeanna, just saw your update. I am so sad beyond words. IF is so cruel and unfair. I wish I had more comforting words right now, but know that I am thinking of you and wishing you nothing but the best as you process everything. (((Hugs)))

Lauren79 · February 2013

I am so sorry. I am so so sad reading this. It is so unfair. I am thinking of you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you lots of hugs.

74dragonfly · February 2013

I'm so sorry. Sending a big virtual hug.

Kaselleck · February 2013

I'm so sorry. Im wishing you the best with t and p's.

jeannaqueena · February 2013

I feel dumb posting this now, i dont want to be that girl being all dramatic, but in the sake of keeping everyone updated....I looked at the test after it dried and there was a second line. I compared it to my trigger test and it's def darker but oh so faint.

I tried to upload the pic but it won't upload wo wifi. So now I am back in hopeful land and I swear my body is playing games with me. Also, the spotting that was red this morning has turned brown and is almost dried up for now. I am mildly crampy but mostly so confused and on a roller coaster of emotions.

Lauren79 · February 2013

jeannaqueena:
I feel dumb posting this now, i dont want to be that girl being all dramatic, but in the sake of keeping everyone updated....I looked at the test after it dried and there was a second line. I compared it to my trigger test and it's def darker but oh so faint. I tried to upload the pic but it won't upload wo wifi. So now I am back in hopeful land and I swear my body is playing games with me. Also, the spotting that was red this morning has turned brown and is almost dried up for now. I am mildly crampy but mostly so confused and on a roller coaster of emotions.

Seriously keeping my fingers crossed and saying extra prayers right now. I hope this is it for you.

74dragonfly · February 2013

jeannaqueena:
I feel dumb posting this now, i dont want to be that girl being all dramatic, but in the sake of keeping everyone updated....I looked at the test after it dried and there was a second line. I compared it to my trigger test and it's def darker but oh so faint.

I tried to upload the pic but it won't upload wo wifi. So now I am back in hopeful land and I swear my body is playing games with me. Also, the spotting that was red this morning has turned brown and is almost dried up for now. I am mildly crampy but mostly so confused and on a roller coaster of emotions.

Buy a digital test. Your beta is tomorrow right?

e74 · February 2013

I feel dumb posting this now, i dont want to be that girl being all dramatic, but in the sake of keeping everyone updated....I looked at the test after it dried and there was a second line. I compared it to my trigger test and it's def darker but oh so faint. I tried to upload the pic but it won't upload wo wifi. So now I am back in hopeful land and I swear my body is playing games with me. Also, the spotting that was red this morning has turned brown and is almost dried up for now. I am mildly crampy but mostly so confused and on a roller coaster of emotions.

Could it have been implantation bleeding? Fingers crossed for you! Tand p's

laurid75 · February 2013

I will continue to think positive for you as we'll and hope this is it. Try to hang in there until you know something for sure!

Kaselleck · February 2013

It looks like a second line is there... I would definitely go buy a digital. I love that there is no room for interpretation.

egsquared · February 2013

Oh my gosh! I see a line! So hopeful for you!

anitaflora · February 2013

Really really hopeful for you sweetie!!

efhoping2010 · February 2013

I see a second line, hoping the best for you!

HairStylinWifey · February 2013

I see a second line too! Oh, I'm so hopeful for you, Jeanna!

KristyLynn26 · February 2013

Definitely a second line.

Keep us posted but I think it's time for a FRER. I have everything crossed for you.

nawlinsgrl · February 2013

How dare you put me through this stress, woman? Don't you know it's harder on me than it could ever be on you! Stick out tongue

So, you had to copy me and have spotting the day of your BFP, didn't you? Shades of "single white female" going on. He he. (People who don't know me very well are gonna think I'm crazy...well they wouldn't be entirely wrong, I guess)

Doing my Snoopy happy dance for you over here and keeping FX that you keep seeing two lines and have a great beta. Keep us posted!

ceebeetee · February 2013

Ok, just reading this thread has been an emotional roller coaster! Jeanna I so so hope that is a "real" positive. I definitely see the faint line! Fx for you. I am cheering for you!

LLB430 · February 2013

I am a graduate but wanted to give you some hope, I had tons of bleeding at the end of my 2ww, went to the doctor and had a negative blood test, and was started on injections for the first time. A whole bunch of wacky things happened and I found out I was pregant a week later, from my last femara cycle. Both of my pregnancies I had thought I had a period. Hope you get some answers soon! I remember going through this over a weekeng last February. Hope the outcome is the same for you!

tryingyetagain · February 2013

I definitely see a faint line there too. I'm hoping it's good news for you! I don't know if it helps or not, but with my second pregnancy, I had a very faint line on Saturday, went to my doctor's office on Monday to confirm and they gave me a urine test. It came back "borderline." I was thinking WTH? How can I be borderline? I was sure I was miscarrying again. They told me to come back Wednesday and I retested again with a urine test. The nurse told me it was "borderline" again. At that point, I was sure I was MCing since the levels didn't seem to be going up. I was crying and so pathetic that she had me do a beta and come back on Friday for a second beta, and lo and behold my levels had more than tripled. I went on to have a very healthy normal pregnancy! I have my fingers crossed for you!

jeannaqueena · February 2013

nawlinsgrl:
How dare you put me through this stress, woman? Don't you know it's harder on me than it could ever be on you!
So, you had to copy me and have spotting the day of your BFP, didn't you? Shades of "single white female" going on. He he. (People who don't know me very well are gonna think I'm crazy...well they wouldn't be entirely wrong, I guess)
Doing my Snoopy happy dance for you over here and keeping FX that you keep seeing two lines and have a great beta. Keep us posted!

bahahahaahaha you always make me laugh and cheer me up!!!! I know your not crazy!!! I would love to copy you and make it to 11 weeks (can I say that seems so far along!! Keep it up!)

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