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XP: Melodramatic but I got hit by a car today...

DH and I were coming out of Safeway this afternoon and we crossed the parking lot to get to our car. All of a sudden this lady pulls her car away from another parked car and bumps me. Of course it didn't do any damage but I was furious. She started to inch the car forward some more and then swung to try an get around me. I yelled, "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! STOP, YOU HIT ME!" And she swung around a bit more and moved on and drove away. I couldn't believe it. Then I notice a couple also yelling and a man with his phone open saying, "Don't worry, I just took a pic of her license. She just hit our car before she hit you. Are you ok?" 

I called the cops to record what happened because even though their car wasn't damaged and I felt ok (other than pure anger), she indeed caused a hit and run. I found out that the cops caught her when they got to me. I asked if she would be charged with anything or at least fined for her recklessness and he said that, unfortunately since no one was injured, she wouldn't get in trouble. The cop was very kind and gave me his info and the info on the case in case I had pain tomorrow or needed to follow up. I just can't help feeling like justice wasn't served. I don't even know what I would want that woman to go through but seriously, shouldn't this be put on her driving record somehow? Or fined? Or anything?! Thankfully, in the end, no one was hurt, just incredibly rattled but it makes me so angry that she just gets to walk away from this without any sort of genuine reprimand. Sigh...so that's my day. Oh and did I mention a pipe busted in our house this morning? Peace out Groundhog's Day. Good riddance... 

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Re: XP: Melodramatic but I got hit by a car today...

  • I'm so glad you are OK. I can't believe she didn't get in trouble! You'd think that after hitting a car, and hitting a person, SOMETHING would be done!

    Your Groundhog Day doesn't sound fun at all :( 

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    HOLY ODIN!

    I tell you, if you wake up in the morning and Sonny and Cher is playing, and some bad DJs are going on and on about it being cold out there, run.

    (((HUGS))) I am glad you are ok. 

    No kidding. If that happens, I'm going to run to my close to cry! 

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  • I am so sorry! That is insane, I can't believe that! How does someone just get away with that, so ridiculous!

  • OMG--not melodramatic at all!  I would have been livid and freaking out!  What if she hit you or someone else and did cause damage???  Wow, just wow.  Sorry!
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  • Holy sh!t balls! Hoolah this is crazy! I can't belive tha crap. Not even a fine or anything? I am so incredibly sorry this happened. I would have for sure punched her car out of pure anger. Did the even fine her for hitting that guys car?
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  • So sorry that happened to you.. I know it's terrifying experience. I was hit by a car while crossing a crosswalk. I was thrown 10ft into the middle of the street. Scrapes/road rash all over, a massive bump on the back of my head, and cracked ribs. Wanna hear the kicker? All the driver got was a citation for failure to yield to a pedestrian! But he did pay all of my medical bills : Keep notes if you start to have any physical symptoms and contact s good attorney if you do. Good luck!
  • Wow! I re-read your post to make sure I was correctly reading that someone actually hit YOU with their car! I don't think you are being melodramatic...someone who hits a car and a person in a parking lot should minimally be cited for reckless or careless driving!

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  • Oh my goodness!  I'm glad you're ok, but I do agree, she should have gotten in trouble.  Since nobody was hurt I understand her not going to jail, but she should have at the VERY least been fined.

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  • I would be foaming at the mouth!  I find it impossible to believe there are no charges they could press considering she hit TWO people/objects and there were plenty of witnesses and photographic evidence!  

    I too would be itching for justice.  Hey, invite me to Hawaii and I'll go vigilante on her a$$.

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  • Oh hell no. I would have caused damage to her car by pounding on it if she hit me. I'm glad you're okay
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  • Oh crap! That is insane!

    I am so sorry you have to deal with this, I totally understand your frustration!

  • So glad you're okay!  Can't believe she wasn't given at least a ticket or fine or SOMETHING!! 
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    shouldn't this be put on her driving record somehow? Or fined? Or anything?!

    This!! I can't believe nothing will be done about this!! That is insane and it infuriates me! I'm so, so sorry you were hit and had to go through all of this stress.  I'm glad you are okay!! I hope today is much better for you! (((Hugs)))

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  • Wow, just wow. It makes me sad that she gets to go on as if nothing happened...what's going to happen next time, when someone could really get hurt? :(

     I'm *so* glad that you're feeling ok, though!

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  • Are you kidding?! People make me sick! What a selfish B. 
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  • Yikes!  I'm glad you okay. I would be mad as heck.  I'm surprised that they couldn't find something to charge her with. 

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  • I hate people. Seriously. I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I'm glad you are doing OK!
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    Holy sh!t balls! Hoolah this is crazy! I can't belive tha crap. Not even a fine or anything? I am so incredibly sorry this happened. I would have for sure punched her car out of pure anger. Did the even fine her for hitting that guys car?

    No fine at all Sad Technically I was hit on private property since it was in a parking lot. The owners of the car said there was no damage and didn't care to report so my issue was dismissed. She hit a fricken' person though! How does she not even get some sort of fine for that?! Pure crap!  

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  • imagecarolyn02:
    So sorry that happened to you.. I know it's terrifying experience. I was hit by a car while crossing a crosswalk. I was thrown 10ft into the middle of the street. Scrapes/road rash all over, a massive bump on the back of my head, and cracked ribs. Wanna hear the kicker? All the driver got was a citation for failure to yield to a pedestrian! But he did pay all of my medical bills : Keep notes if you start to have any physical symptoms and contact s good attorney if you do. Good luck!

    OH.MY.GOSH. That's disgusting and makes me even more angry. I can't believe how the law is handled sometimes. I'm at a loss for words!  

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