Have any of you ladies had this done? I had a vaginal delivery with my first and it was a horrific experience. I have been weighing the pros and cons about a tubal and c section at once. I've researched and plan on speaking with my OB at my apt Tuesday but was really looking for some feedback from women that have experienced it.
BTW: This isn't a "too posh to push" kind if inquiry. I will def do another vaginal birth if it is recommended but with all the complications I had with the last I literally have anxiety attacks thinking about doing it all over.
Thanks for any info!
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Re: C sec and tubal?
This was 100 years ago, obviously, but my mom tried to get a tubal during her pregnancies 2x. Once with her third pregnancy and once with her fifth. On the third pregnancy, the doctor said that she had to wait 6 months to "think about it" and on the fifth pregnancy, my sister came early and the doctor said that "you should wait until you're sure this baby survives." My mom was 40 so she really didn't plan to go through pregnancy again, regardless.
She was living near where you are when both these experiences happened so I thought I'd throw that out there. I don't know if this is ancient thinking that no longer applies or if it's a FL thing.
**DD1 - 7/9/98**
**DS - 11/9/00**
**DD2 - 4/30/13**
I delivered at a private Catholic hospital and just had a tubal done with my 4th c-section. The hospital will ONLY allow a tubal with 3+ c-sections. I had to fill out paperwork, it had to go before the board and be approved.
It was a very easy procedure. Took about 5 minutes since I was already on the table..........I don't regret my decision.
GL!
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Yes, I'm scheduled to get a tubal with my RCS. It's completely normal here (in MA) and Dr's will definitely do it on request.
She did say that she will ask me before I go into the OR, during surgery, and then again right before she does it so at any point if I want to not go through with it I can back out.
Yes, this is true. I think I was asked like a hundred times........
Just had my 3rd and final c/s. It was a scheduled c/s and I had a tubal as well. My doctor told me I was an excellent candidate because of my age (37), complicated previous c/s, terrible recoveries and this being my 3rd child. He did ask me a number of times and again on the operating table.
Because this was my 3rd and my previous c/s were complicated, my tubal took forever. I was in surgery for an hour after DS was delivered. And I was way more sore for days after my surgery this time around than I was with either of my previous two.
I've had a c section and a VBAC. My VBAC was a very difficult delivery in the world of vaginal births (3 hours of pushing, forceps assistance, 2nd degree tear) but it was light years better than the C-section. After my C I was uncontrollably vomiting for 12 hours. Zofran didn't help, nothing helped. I couldn't hold or nurse my daughter. Then two weeks later I went for a check up and my incision was infected (versus 2 weeks post vaginal birth where I was up and moving like before getting pregnant). It turned what should have been the best day of my life into the worst.
I just found out today that it's likely I will not be able to VBAC this time (my cervix is not amenable and I have PIH and pre-eclampsia so I need to deliver within the next week) and I'm terrified. I may need to call the doctor and request xanax to get through the next few days because I'm so scared of another section.
The only bright side I can think of is that I can get a tubal (and I've expressed often to the doctor that between DH and I only wanting 3 and a month of bedrest due to hypertension another pregnancy is not an option). Otherwise DH would have a vasectomy and there would be a waiting period before it's effective, which is annoying.
I had planned on asking my OB to do a tubal while she was 'in there'. Now after reading some of these posts about giving birth at a Catholic hospital, I don't know if that will happen..since I am giving birth at a Catholic hospital! YIKES!