I love my 9 year old nephew. He's a real sweet boy, but I'm really concerned about him. His mom, my sister, has been a sh!tbag mom to him. She's chosen drugs and guys over him countless times. The boy still wets the bed every single night and sucks his thumb constantly.
My sister keeps blaming some disorder. "Oh he has PTSD." "Oh it's ADHD."
Last summer, I brought him to a Twins game in Minneapolis, which required an overnight stay at my cousin's. He had to share an air mattress with his little sister. I cut off all liquids at 7. I woke him up 3 different times. I explained to him that I wanted to help him, because he gets embarrassed on overnight trips. Guess what? He didn't wet the bed. My sister says she has "tried" this method before, but it NEVER works, and that he needs medication.
Oh and because his 3rd grade teacher "diagnosed" him with ADHD, he needs to be medicated for that too. This kid is so calm when he's with me and well behaved. This is true for everybody except his mom and apparent teacher. His mom never makes him follow through with anything. He struggles with school, because his mom never makes him do his work. I sort of hate my sister over this. She uses excuse after excuse. I'm secretly hoping I can take him over the summer, and try to help break his bad habits that nobody even bats an eye at.
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Sam101, I am sorry you nephew all that going on. He is lucky he has a awesome Aunt there for him.
I have 2. I still track every ounce and diaper like I did when we come home from the hospital. I tried to stop and I can't!
The other is I know this girl who is an acquaintance through my other friends and I really don't like her. She has said some crummy things about me and DD and I just cant handle her kind of immaturity. She was at a Bday party I was at with LO and when LO saw her she was really afraid of her and bawled until we walked away from said girl. I thought it was so funny and I gave DD a baby high-5.
Sam, you sound like a great aunt. Your nephew is lucky to have someone like you in his life.
My confession is that I don't feel like giving money for a coworkers baby shower. One because my department is huge and I don't even know her. Second because I'm not going to be here on the day of the shower anyway so I won't get to enjoy the party.
I hate the announcements of certain topics on Facebook. For instance, an old classmate committed suicide 2 days ago. My class was around a hundred people. It's an everybody knows everybody kind of school. Anyhow, five people on my fb made "the announcement". I find it so disrespectful to his family. Some things are better left off of fb.
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this is more of an UO...and perhaps testament to the sorry state of my social life, but I am super excited to get together with DH tonight and do our taxes! I seriously love it, maybe I was a CPA in a former life.
I'm also totally over the gun debate via memes on FB
I have gone to the store 3 times this week in my pajama pants... the same ones...
I feel like a jerk for telling my doc that I just wish I wasnt fertile any more (after my pregnancy and mirena drama) and that we were probably done having kids.
I have no plans on raising my son as a man's man. My husband is a huge sports buff and if my son is too, great, but I wont push it. It's not a priority that he has chest hair at 8. If I had a girl though, she would have pink glitter coming out of her ears. I have a total double standard with this.
UO- Camo in ruffles/with sequins/ with pink/ with flowers is freaking hideous.
and have fun with your taxes? I didnt know anyone actually enjoyed this
ETA- Sam, I totally agree. Ive actually seen other people besides family answer how someone died in the comments when asked. People are shameless on facebook
Maybe mine is that I feel stupid because I don't know what FFFC or UO is!!??!! Does that count as one? haha
Our TTC Journey
TTC #1: May 2011 BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12 DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018 Me: 36 | DH: 39 Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled 9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks 10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN 11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst 3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP 11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Maybe mine is that I feel stupid because I don't know what FFFC or UO is!!??!!nbsp; Does that count as one? haha
It took me a minute to get it when I first joined too. The acronyms here are a lot! FFFC = Flame Free Friday Confession UO = Unpopular Opinion
Man, I was way off! Haha thanks for clearing that up!
Our TTC Journey
TTC #1: May 2011 BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12 DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018 Me: 36 | DH: 39 Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled 9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks 10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN 11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst 3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP 11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Re: FFFC
My sister keeps blaming some disorder. "Oh he has PTSD." "Oh it's ADHD."
Last summer, I brought him to a Twins game in Minneapolis, which required an overnight stay at my cousin's. He had to share an air mattress with his little sister. I cut off all liquids at 7. I woke him up 3 different times. I explained to him that I wanted to help him, because he gets embarrassed on overnight trips. Guess what? He didn't wet the bed. My sister says she has "tried" this method before, but it NEVER works, and that he needs medication.
Oh and because his 3rd grade teacher "diagnosed" him with ADHD, he needs to be medicated for that too. This kid is so calm when he's with me and well behaved. This is true for everybody except his mom and apparent teacher. His mom never makes him follow through with anything. He struggles with school, because his mom never makes him do his work. I sort of hate my sister over this. She uses excuse after excuse. I'm secretly hoping I can take him over the summer, and try to help break his bad habits that nobody even bats an eye at.
Sam101, I am sorry you nephew all that going on. He is lucky he has a awesome Aunt there for him.
I have 2. I still track every ounce and diaper like I did when we come home from the hospital. I tried to stop and I can't!
The other is I know this girl who is an acquaintance through my other friends and I really don't like her. She has said some crummy things about me and DD and I just cant handle her kind of immaturity. She was at a Bday party I was at with LO and when LO saw her she was really afraid of her and bawled until we walked away from said girl. I thought it was so funny and I gave DD a baby high-5.
My confession is that I don't feel like giving money for a coworkers baby shower. One because my department is huge and I don't even know her. Second because I'm not going to be here on the day of the shower anyway so I won't get to enjoy the party.
I hate the announcements of certain topics on Facebook. For instance, an old classmate committed suicide 2 days ago. My class was around a hundred people. It's an everybody knows everybody kind of school. Anyhow, five people on my fb made "the announcement". I find it so disrespectful to his family. Some things are better left off of fb.
this is more of an UO...and perhaps testament to the sorry state of my social life, but I am super excited to get together with DH tonight and do our taxes! I seriously love it, maybe I was a CPA in a former life.
I'm also totally over the gun debate via memes on FB
I have gone to the store 3 times this week in my pajama pants... the same ones...
I feel like a jerk for telling my doc that I just wish I wasnt fertile any more (after my pregnancy and mirena drama) and that we were probably done having kids.
I have no plans on raising my son as a man's man. My husband is a huge sports buff and if my son is too, great, but I wont push it. It's not a priority that he has chest hair at 8. If I had a girl though, she would have pink glitter coming out of her ears. I have a total double standard with this.
UO- Camo in ruffles/with sequins/ with pink/ with flowers is freaking hideous.
and have fun with your taxes? I didnt know anyone actually enjoyed this
ETA- Sam, I totally agree. Ive actually seen other people besides family answer how someone died in the comments when asked. People are shameless on facebook
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
It took me a minute to get it when I first joined too. The acronyms here are a lot! FFFC = Flame Free Friday Confession UO = Unpopular Opinion
Man, I was way off! Haha thanks for clearing that up!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.