Some back story first. I would love to not work for my company, there are good and bad aspects but I am bored and not challenged.
now, I spoke to my boss today on my maternity leave. We had spoken briefly before, he wanted me to move to the East Coast and I advised that I could not. I thought then I would be made redundant and that was OK with me.
He previously suggested that I work part time when I get back and he would hire a new me on the east coast, again, not a bad solution for me too. I earn a very good salary so PT salary would still be good.
Now today. He suggests that as I will be without pay from the day I start mat leave that he is willing to pay me from that day PT salary. I confirmed that I could not guarantee that I will be available during mat leave for ANY work or contact and he was fine with that, he just did it want to leave me in the lurch without pay.
Part of me thinks that he was being sincere and just a nice offer. The bigger part of me is questioning this wondering what have I missed and what am I giving up here and will get scr.ewed over.
Once I go PT I will lose benefits as less than 40 hours (company policy) and he would have to pay that if I was just to go out n mat leave. Is this just a way to get around this?
So what am I missing here ladies. To help I am in CA and a VP for my company. I just feel the other shoe will drop.
What do you think?? I asked my BMB the same question too
Multiple ectopics, 2 failed IVF's
IVF #1: Did not get to ET, embies all failed PGD (major chromosomal defects)
IVF #2: We have 2 chromosomally perfect embies as a result of PGD (Boy/Girl) 1 failed the thaw (Girl) Transferred 1, yet ended as a c/p
Thought it was the end of our TTC Journey 6/20/2012
SHOCK BFP 9/28/2012: IT'S A BOY! and everything is normal !!!!!!
Little A born 38w 2d on 05/23/13 and is a true miracle for this IF Vet!
Re: Mat leave advice needed (long) - update posted below
DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
EDD 2/22/2013
PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
So weird..... If you aren't on your DH's insurance, I would not take the PT and have the insurance instead. I'm sort of in the pessimistic "I don't trust it" zone right now, though
BTW... you have PM
Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant
Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB , 2nd u/s 146bpm
baby girl born 5/10/13
TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28.
IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!! Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!
Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl
I, too, would be skeptical. Do you work for a large corporation? If so...I would be even more so. And would definitely contact HR to further investigate before making a decision.
I hate to be pessimistic, but unfortunately with large companies (and I do work for one), you just never know what is going on behind closed doors.
TTC since March/April 2010
DX: MFI - less than 1 million sperm, 26% motility
DH put on anastrozole to increase counts
June/July 2011 100 mg Clomid + TS IUI#1 & IUI 2 - BFN :-(
Forced break due to DH getting spinal surgery in August 2011
IVF - January 2012: BFN
FET in April 2012 - BFP at 6dp5dt! Beta #1 at 9dp5dt: 82.5, Beta #2 at 12dp5dt: 352 Beta #3 at 19dp5dt: 6000, saw heartbeat and one little bean at 5W6D!
After nearly 3 years of waiting our LO was born December 18th 2012!
Update: found out the offer was purely a kind gesture as he cannot believe that women may have 12 weeks off without pay.
i spoke to my HR person and she will speak to him in a couple of weeks to work it through. As I am looking at going part-time, I will not lose medical benefits if the company say it was their decision, and they are willing to do that.
looms like it may work out, maybe pay or no pay, still to see on that one. Funny thing was once I told the HR person she then told me she was pg so we have precedence issues now it will be interesting how this all falls out
Multiple ectopics, 2 failed IVF's
IVF #1: Did not get to ET, embies all failed PGD (major chromosomal defects)
IVF #2: We have 2 chromosomally perfect embies as a result of PGD (Boy/Girl) 1 failed the thaw (Girl) Transferred 1, yet ended as a c/p
Thought it was the end of our TTC Journey 6/20/2012
SHOCK BFP 9/28/2012: IT'S A BOY! and everything is normal !!!!!!
Little A born 38w 2d on 05/23/13 and is a true miracle for this IF Vet!