So, DS is 18 mo this month. I think it's a good time to try for 2...he will be 26 months if we are successful this month. Unfortunately, I had a MC in October, so I am TERRIFIED of having another one. Going thru that was awful and the guilt was overwhelming. I hid it well. But, I think about it constantly. I never thought it would happen to me, but it did. Now, I have to emotionally prepare to start trying again knowing there's always a possibility that I may have another MC. I don't know why I'm so anxious!!
positive thoughts!!
Anyone else ready for 2, 3, 4??
Re: BDing this month??
If you're looking to get pregnant, Aug 11 is definitely the place to be. LOL. It feels like half the board is currently pregnant and the other half is TTC.
On a different note, I don't think I recognize your sn but your avatar looks familiar - Did you use to post here before?
I've never had a m/c, but my SIL has had two ectopic pregnancies, and a friend's first baby had a fatal birth defect. From other family members, I know SIL wants more kids, but has fear about another ectopic. My friend whose baby had the birth defect was scared when TTC again. So from what I know from others, what you feel is normal. Have you posted in the TTCAL board?
But yeah...lots of us are pg, have just had babies, or are planning to TTC soon around here, so you'd be in good company.
I did when I was pg with DS. After I had him, he took up a lot of time!!! So, I stopped posting. I would lurk here and there, but rarely posted. I may have posted a few on may 2013 moms, but I'm no longer there. I recognize some of the SNs here.
I'm scared of that board! I have tough skin, and although I'm in their same boat, they are all sensitive and I don't want to say the wrong thing. I'm lurked there. They have a good comroderie, so I don't want to screw with that. I might have posted one thing on there, but it was something general and I knew I wouldn't get told to go F myself!