So we transitioned to a bed a couple weeks ago--- and some nights haven't been too bad (sometimes will go to sleep with someone sitting in his room after about 15 min)--but many times it takes longer. And he will only seem to fall asleep if DH is in the room as he thinks if I am in the room it's snuggle time and play time. Ugh.
BUT what's worse is many times in the middle of the night (probably 4 out of 7 days a week)--he's waking up SEVERAL times and screaming for me. If I go in to the room he'll walk back to his bed but I have to sit in his room for almost 45 min before he'll fall asleep. Same for if DH goes in.
I'm exhausted and so is DH who is helping out right now. We can't really let him completely CIO because DS1 is across the hall and really needs his sleep for school. We have a night light, we've tried leaving a very dim lamp on, he has that musical seahorse thingy that plays music. He has his blankies. I just don't get it.
I don't think he's got an ear infection because he'll let me touch his ears and normally when he's had one he won't. No fevers. Don't see new teeth coming in.
Any tips????? Something I haven't tried?
FYI--we keep his room gated and close the door but don't shut it all the way. When he is screaming in the middle of the night, sometimes we have closed the door and he just bangs on it.
Re: This sleep issue is going to kill us.....pure exhaustion!
I have to update my siggy--but he's 20 months. I didn't want to transition him this young--but DH basically put up a bed and took down the crib before I could stop him. We transitioned ds1 at 22 mos because he climbed out of crib.
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I think my DH thought it was time because DS2 was waking a lot in the night because he was banging against the sides of the crib. He's kind of a big boy. The bed he got was DS1's bed who DS2 loves to hop up on--so it's 'new' to his room, but he's actually known the bed.
He has a security blanket and tons of his fave stuffed animals--you name it. And we also use a sound machine.
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My DS is about to turn 19 months, sleeps great, and hasnt tried climbing out of the crib.. we have NO plans to switch him to the toddler bed any time soon.
20 months is still young, and he may just not be ready yet. I'd put the crib back up. I'd actually be furious with DH if he made that decision alone!
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