how would you feel if your DH stalked your posts?

LittleDuckie2013 · January 2013

I was looking at other boards and saw this on ttgp. would you be upset?

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/71703483.aspx

smithm24 · January 2013

Words could not describe how upset I would be. Talk to me about it, don't out yourself on TB. Also, I'm pretty sure it's MUD. Very entertaining MUD.

beachbum0084 · January 2013

I think I would be most disappointed in myself for marrying a d bag that is in fact POSTING something I can read and acting like I won't see it lol pretty sure it has to be mud though. As far as dh looking at my posts I wouldn't care. He has my password to everything. I think it helps hold each other accountable. I don't think either of us ever actually looks but if things started getting fishy I could.

RedCherry1109 · January 2013

I would be pissed at him!!! He knows that I'm on here and if he ever saw my screen name, he could figure it out that it's me.

RileighsMom1224 · January 2013

I would kinda feel sorry for him. It would mean that he is insecure about what I am doing on line. I know my husband would never stalk me on line. I always am leaving my facebook up and this site up also. He just leaves my stuff alone and looks at his silly memebase.com.

He could care less about what I say to strangers on line, even if I do share personal details.

Faith7 · January 2013

I would feel kind of flattered if my husband were interested enough to read the silly little things I write on here. "Stalking" would never cross my mind. I usually ask him, anyway, if I'm going to mention him in the post; and he usually looks at me like, "'Woman, why would I care what you say about me to a bunch of strangers?"

It's very weird to think of it as breaking my privacy or something, since, after all, I'm posting it online to countless people I know very little about. Hardly any privacy there.

And if he did find I said something that hurt him, I would be hurt myself if he didn't bring it up with me. I hope we have a more robust relationship than that.

I don't know; maybe it's because we met online, on a message forum. We tend to read our posts to one another if we write anything of substance, just because we like sharing things like that. If we know that the other has been posting somewhere, we might take the trouble to go read what s/he wrote; mostly we've gotten lazy since we married, though, and we just ask to have it read aloud to us.

CocoMcGee · February 2013

RileighsMom1224:

I would kinda feel sorry for him. It would mean that he is insecure about what I am doing on line. I know my husband would never stalk me on line. I always am leaving my facebook up and this site up also. He just leaves my stuff alone and looks at his silly memebase.com.

He could care less about what I say to strangers on line, even if I do share personal details.

All this, and really there is nothing that I share on here that I don't discuss with my husband, or would be willing to discuss with him. If I don't it's b/c it just doesn't matter. I really don't want to hear about his fart jokes with his friends, so I also keep my equivalent to myself.

Dumbledore · February 2013

I didn't read it, but I would be upset with him. I couldn't care less if he reads what I post on here, but to go behind my back would not be okay with me.

btsrc5 · February 2013

His fu posts are a little disturbing. I hope it is MUD.

RissNRuss · February 2013

This is technically "our" account, so he has full access, not that he's interested in posting. He laughs at the stories I tell him, and thinks the Troll stuff is kinda nuts, but I've shown him things I've posted, and I don't think it bothers him. However if he went in here and posted crap like that I'd be peeved- we're very honest with each other so its not cool to us to share our problems like that online. We talk it out- not broadcast it to the world. Even the times I vent to a friend IRL, I tell him about it later, and he knows it's usually me looking for the way I want to discuss it with him. That dude, hubby fail!

singahappysong · February 2013

Dumbledore:
I didn't read it, but I would be upset with him. I couldn't care less if he reads what I post on here, but to go behind my back would not be okay with me.

This. If we ever have issues, we sort them out pretty quickly. Even if did vent about something on here, I'd always talk to him about the issue as soon as we could (when he gets home from work).

flerlgirl · February 2013

Yeah, my husband really couldn't care less. I try not to vent about him too much on places like anyway bc I feel like if I have an issue I need to bring it to him and not to the internet. So if I post about him it's usually silly stuff.

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