LGBT Parenting

Belated Community Thread/PIP Thursday

We didn't do a community thread yesterday, and it's PIP day today - so why not double up?


WELCOME to all our new posters (and lurkers).  Congrats to all those who recently got their BFPs, and congrats to all the new and expectant parents out there! 

I don't have a good QOTD today:  so maybe someone will throw one out? 

As for your PIP's -- maybe post something that makes you happy?

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queer couple - 32 (me) & 33 (my love) years old - donor sperm,

Our IF/TTC journey since Nov 2012.

Me: dx of DOR in Nov. 2012. Low AMH, AFC - 6, Normal FSH, SS-A (RO) Antibodies (Autoimmune issues), tubes clear, Sono (November 2013) NORMAL! <p>

7 IUI's - December 2012-September 2013.  Medicated, Injected, Triggered.... all BFN.

My Love:  (the amazing @Healz413)
Normal AMH & FSH, AFC ~27, blocked tube dx'd via HSG in 2012.   Hydrosalpinx & ovarian cyst dx'd in May 2013.
dx of Stage IV Endo & bilateral salpinectomy in June 2013.  

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Partner IVF#1a- December 2013 - H's eggs, my Ute - CANCELLED due to low response
Partner IVF #1b - February 2014 - H's eggs, my Ute - ER February 4 (10 retrieved, 3 fertilized), Transfer Feb 7 of one Grade 1 and one Grade 2 day 3 embryos.  1 - Day 3, Grade 1 frosty saved.   BFP - 6dp3dt via FRER, Beta #1 - 110, Beta #2 175, Beta #3 - 348, Beta #4 - 2222!, Beta #5 - 4255.  Ultrasound (6w1d) - 2 heartbearts!  

We lost our beautiful Twin baby girls on June 18, 2014.  Tavin Sara and Casey Elizabeth were born at 21 weeks gestation and were absolutely beautiful, precious, amazing babies.  We miss our daughters every day and love them with all our hearts.

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Re: Belated Community Thread/PIP Thursday

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    This dog makes me happy. Her sleeping while I'm working (as she is now) makes me even happier.

    Community Thread Update: Our update is that we made an appointment to meet with a reproductive/fertility counselor with a lot of LGBTQ experience. We meet with her on Monday (we're lucky that my benefits will cover it) for our first appointment. We hope that she will help us work through the decisions we need to make as well as provide some support through this frustrating and exhausting process. Manada might want to add more since it was her idea.


    Suggested QOTD: If you were given $1000 to spend on anything that you wanted except for the following rules, what would you buy? The rules:  1) it has to be something(s) for you and/or your partner and/or your kids, 2) it cannot be used for paying bills/debts, 3) it cannot be saved, 4) it cannot be applied to fertility treatments, 5) it can't be used for "essentials" like groceries or everyday clothes.

    QOTD answer: I would buy us a new recliner (for about $400-500), a wireless printer (for about $120), a small chest freezer (for about $250), and party dresses for M and me for our city hall legal marriage after our love party (for about $150-200).

    ****loss discussed*****

    We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.

    Our IUIs
    with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.

    Our IVFs:
    IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response

    IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
    BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
    2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
    BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
    1st ultrasound (3/6  6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm. 

    ***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***

    FET #1 December 2014
    Intralipid infusion on Dec 10. Transfer of 1 day 3 nine-cell embryo into my uterus on Dec. 19. (acupuncture immediately before and after)
    BFP on Dec. 27; Beta 1 Jan 2 (14dp3dt): 665, Beta 2 Jan 4 (16dp3dt): 1859, Beta 3 Jan 6 (18dp3dt): 4449, Beta 4 Jan 10 (22dp3dt): 12,251.



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  • I would buy $1000air fare and car rental for our Hawaii trip

     Things here are good- till tomorrow the girls go in for 18 mo check up  and they just got settled ( no colds) and teething is at a stand still or not interfering with daily life as of yet. 

     

    I love our WACKY family !

     FUN FAM

    - 2 Moms 2 Twins Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    our Blog -http://dosbabies.wordpress.com/
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  • imageGo Buckeyes!!!  This is my wife and I are our first OSU game this year
    T & G My wife and I married 9/10/11 in Niagara Falls, NY
    HSG 12/12/12        
    #1 ICI 12/15/12              BFN on 12/29/12
    #2 ICI  1/11/13                BFN 1/28/13                       
    #3 ICI 2/11/13                 BFN
                   
    #4 ICI August 2013,  Clomid 100mg    BFN on 8/30/13 
    #5 ICI September-Clomid 100,  mg ICI 8/15 and 8/16,  BFN on 9/3
    #6 ICI October-Clomid 150 mg for 5 days   BFN 10/27
    uterine laparoscopy on 11/14-no endo or cysts
    #7 IUI December-Clomid 150mg    BFP 12/21
    12/23 Beta 51     12/26 Beta 209!
    First ultrasound on January 8th 2014-great healthy heartbeat
    Second Ultrasound January 23 (8 weeks) we got to see and hear the heartbeat
    Third Ultrasound Feb 4th(10 weeks), then will  released to OBGYN'
    It's a GIRL!
    We welcomed Adalyn Cooper Elizabeth on 8/29/14
    She was 7lbs 11oz and 19.6 inches long

    Proud foster parents to two little girls ages 2.5 yrs old, M,  and 1 year old, K



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    This is my first PIP. I went down to the wharf (2 min walk from office) and watched the harbor seals bobbing in the water. This always makes me feel better when I'm down, looking at the seals and laughing at their cute faces!

    If I had $1,000 I would spend it on a tww getaway somewhere closeby on the California coast with my love, probably Big Sur where we could go to the beach and eat wonderful food every day and just focus on our love.

    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
  • imagemollykelley:

    This is my first PIP. I went down to the wharf (2 min walk from office) and watched the harbor seals bobbing in the water. This always makes me feel better when I'm down, looking at the seals and laughing at

    Your photo makes ME happy!   I used to live in Victoria, BC and the harbour seals down there were always so awesome and adorable...   There were a ton of them living there about 15 years ago, I'm not sure if they're there anymore....

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    queer couple - 32 (me) & 33 (my love) years old - donor sperm,

    Our IF/TTC journey since Nov 2012.

    Me: dx of DOR in Nov. 2012. Low AMH, AFC - 6, Normal FSH, SS-A (RO) Antibodies (Autoimmune issues), tubes clear, Sono (November 2013) NORMAL! <p>

    7 IUI's - December 2012-September 2013.  Medicated, Injected, Triggered.... all BFN.

    My Love:  (the amazing @Healz413)
    Normal AMH & FSH, AFC ~27, blocked tube dx'd via HSG in 2012.   Hydrosalpinx & ovarian cyst dx'd in May 2013.
    dx of Stage IV Endo & bilateral salpinectomy in June 2013.  

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    Partner IVF#1a- December 2013 - H's eggs, my Ute - CANCELLED due to low response
    Partner IVF #1b - February 2014 - H's eggs, my Ute - ER February 4 (10 retrieved, 3 fertilized), Transfer Feb 7 of one Grade 1 and one Grade 2 day 3 embryos.  1 - Day 3, Grade 1 frosty saved.   BFP - 6dp3dt via FRER, Beta #1 - 110, Beta #2 175, Beta #3 - 348, Beta #4 - 2222!, Beta #5 - 4255.  Ultrasound (6w1d) - 2 heartbearts!  

    We lost our beautiful Twin baby girls on June 18, 2014.  Tavin Sara and Casey Elizabeth were born at 21 weeks gestation and were absolutely beautiful, precious, amazing babies.  We miss our daughters every day and love them with all our hearts.

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  • A friend of mine just sent me this.... in an email titled "VERY important 4:15 stuff".   It made me laugh so I thought I'd share today....

     

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    QOTD:  If I had $1000 I would:

    1.  Spend $150 on a wireless printer for H.

    2.  Buy us a TV for our bedroom so I can watch Netflix from bed.

    3.  Buy a chaise/sofa combo for our tiny living room so I can stretch out.

    4.  Get bookshelves custom built for our space.

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    queer couple - 32 (me) & 33 (my love) years old - donor sperm,

    Our IF/TTC journey since Nov 2012.

    Me: dx of DOR in Nov. 2012. Low AMH, AFC - 6, Normal FSH, SS-A (RO) Antibodies (Autoimmune issues), tubes clear, Sono (November 2013) NORMAL! <p>

    7 IUI's - December 2012-September 2013.  Medicated, Injected, Triggered.... all BFN.

    My Love:  (the amazing @Healz413)
    Normal AMH & FSH, AFC ~27, blocked tube dx'd via HSG in 2012.   Hydrosalpinx & ovarian cyst dx'd in May 2013.
    dx of Stage IV Endo & bilateral salpinectomy in June 2013.  

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    Partner IVF#1a- December 2013 - H's eggs, my Ute - CANCELLED due to low response
    Partner IVF #1b - February 2014 - H's eggs, my Ute - ER February 4 (10 retrieved, 3 fertilized), Transfer Feb 7 of one Grade 1 and one Grade 2 day 3 embryos.  1 - Day 3, Grade 1 frosty saved.   BFP - 6dp3dt via FRER, Beta #1 - 110, Beta #2 175, Beta #3 - 348, Beta #4 - 2222!, Beta #5 - 4255.  Ultrasound (6w1d) - 2 heartbearts!  

    We lost our beautiful Twin baby girls on June 18, 2014.  Tavin Sara and Casey Elizabeth were born at 21 weeks gestation and were absolutely beautiful, precious, amazing babies.  We miss our daughters every day and love them with all our hearts.

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  • imageManada:
    imagemollykelley:

    This is my first PIP. I went down to the wharf (2 min walk from office) and watched the harbor seals bobbing in the water. This always makes me feel better when I'm down, looking at the seals and laughing at

    Your photo makes ME happy!   I used to live in Victoria, BC and the harbour seals down there were always so awesome and adorable...   There were a ton of them living there about 15 years ago, I'm not sure if they're there anymore....

    Harbor seals are so adorable... Always make me smile and laugh out loud. 

    I just got "the call" from RE. It took them two days to get back to me with blood work. Of course, I fantasized, as you did, that the BFN could be wrong! Not so.

    I'm looking at a new clinic near home that does IVF. But it has a "boutique" kind of "spa" feel to it, and I think it is for the 1%. (I am the 99% that lives near the 1%) and I don't know if they take insurance. It is like a destination IVF place, kind of like how people go on vacations to get plastic surgery? Not sure if it is for me, but I have to check it out as it is one mile from my (teeny tiny) house.

    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
  • This is also my first time posting for PIP. Here is a picture of our tree on top of our neighbor's garage and subsequently her car that was parked outside of it- destroyed and totaled respectively. Two nights ago we didn't have a tornado come through but a really bad storm with straight line winds". Could have gone without this hiccup. One of other trees was hit by lightning and partially fell along with another that partially fell. What a day yesterday....It's looking like our listing might be put off for a bit.

     


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  • Ah, I forgot the QOTD! Well, I guess it going toward my deductible is technically going toward bills and doesn't count. I would also use the money toward traveling. We like to travel places and see concerts of our favorite artists, so we schedule trips around that. I would find a great concert and get moving!
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  • Oooh, I've never done one of these picture-in-post things. I hope it works!  
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    What I hope you're seeing here is my lovely partner being goofy on a hike in a state park. Looking at it makes me yearn for warm weather! Wisconsin winters are rough.
     
    If I had $1000 I'd definitely get awesome custom bookshelves made of reclaimed wood. If there was any money left I would get more books. :)
     
     
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  • Good Evening! Good Question this week with some good exceptions because I certainly went to each of those forbidden areas! If I was given $1000 I would take C and I on a vacation. We rarely have the opportunity to get away (with the exception of visiting family).

     During my TWW I have been thinking of all the things I am not allowing myself to have, even if they aren't off limits yet so my PIP is sushi! YUM! Totally my favorite! I don't know how to upload pictures to this site yet, so just imagine sushi in your heads...yum! image

     

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    Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
    First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013

    C began IUI's
    7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140....  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

    03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!

    1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.

    Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!

     

    Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/

     

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  • What makes me happy is our kitty cat, Emma Rose. I've had her since she was 6 months old and she is turning 11 years old this year! She's a spunky and outrageously awesome cat! She is more like a dog...so we call her a cog. She comes when she is called, does tricks and all the good stuff! 

    If I had $1000, I would take a trip with my wife. The one thing we've never done is fly together! I want to go to Hawaii! :)  

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    Married my soulmate on 10.1.11; One furbaby, Emma the cat; Madly in love and Just starting our journey on the TTC path! Trying to Conceive Ticker
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    This just brought tears to my eyes (stupid pregnancy hormones) because it reminds me so much of my child and home.  I think if this makes me teary I have to find a way to get home for a visit before these babies arrive.

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