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I don't want to go to work tomorrow...

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I used to like my job. Now I dread it. I just want to stay home with LO.  Anyone else feel this way?

IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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Re: I don't want to go to work tomorrow...

  • imoveritimoverit member
    I completely felt that way and ended taking a year off. Then went back part time which makes it better. Sorry you feel this way.
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  • BabyKsMommyBabyKsMommy member
    I also went through this. I actually quit my full time job and started another job part time so I can have lots of time home with my LO.
    Diagnosed MFI- low sperm count  
    DS-Born 7/27/11 After 2 years of IF we have our little man
    TTC#2 January 2013
    11 Medicated cycles gave us
    B/G Twins born 10/8/14 @ 32 weeks
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  • Cwhitaker27Cwhitaker27 member
    I definitely went through this when I started back to work. I actually had a lot of anxiety about being away from DS, which went on for several months. Unfortunately being a SAHM isn't an option for me. Over time things got a million percent better. I am lucky that my mother in law takes care of him so that helps a lot. If you know your little one is in good hands it makes going to work that much easier. And you might not really hate work but you feel that way because you have more fun things to do at home with your little one. Either way, I hope you can find some peace with whatever you need to do.
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  • RoseHQ12RoseHQ12 member

    I am sorry you are feeling this way :( it doesn't help that you are in transition with nanny's & don't have peace of mind at work.  I hope things get better with new care for your LO.  Hugs to you.

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  • SaraevhSaraevh member
    I'm sure you will feel better once the whole nanny situation is taken care of.  Hugs to you!
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  • TJ1979TJ1979 member
    I'm right there with you. I am in a really great situation at work, and I still dread comin. I'd rather be at home with E. hugs.
    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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  • mdiblasi10mdiblasi10 member
    YES!!!! Especially this morning. Grayson was upset because he just wanted me to hold him and it absolutely broke my heart dropping him off at daycare. I feel like I barely ever see him during the week. Sigh. I know just how you feel. ((hugs))
    Dx: Unexplained Infertility

    TTC #1 
    IUI's #1 - #3 Clomid = BFN's, IUI #4 Follistim = BFP
    Grayson arrived via emergency c-section on 7/28/12!

    TTC #2 
    IUI's #1 - #4 Follistim = BFN's
    IVF #1 w/ ICSI + PGS: Lupron/Follistim/Menopur
    ER 4/13 - 19R, 13F, 4 PGS tested embryos, 1 normal
    5/14 FET: BFP. Beta #1: 123, Beta #2: 327, Beta #3: 854
    Cora arrived 1/23/15 via RCS!
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  • lovebug33lovebug33 member
    I never want to go to work.
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  • IBackBevoIBackBevo member
    Yeah, totally what everyone above said.  My job is not that bad.  It is actually a good job for an attorney Mom. Still, I would rather be home with LO.  Oh well.  Maybe someday. 
    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
    BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • TXwife9TXwife9 member
    I feel this way too all of the time! I have a good job that I like but I just get tired of dropping DD off at daycare everyday. I think it just really makes us cherish our evenings and weekends at home. Hope it gets better for you!

    TTC #1 since 8/09, Dx MFI 4/10
    IUI #1: 6/10 = Cancelled, IUI #2: 7/10 = Cancelled, IVF #1: 9/10 = BFP
    Baby girl arrived - 6/14/11

    TTC #2
    IVF #2 - Oct/Nov 2012: 11/5 - eSET - 7 Frosties - BFP
    Baby girl arrived - 7/17/13 


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