August 2013 Moms

Goodbye...

Well we went for our 11 week check up...And found what I have been fearing the whole time...no hearbeat...baby stopped growing at 7 weeks...

I am heartbroken and so angry. I begged for the first MD I saw to draw my levels and pleaded for a 6 week ultrasound...I feel like if someone had listened we could figure out what is going on with my body - obviously I can get pregnant just can't stay that way...The MD that did my D&E Tuesday was also confused on why they didn't do more earlier on in the pregnancy...

So I'll go in 4 weeks and have some blood work done...Hopefully get to the bottom of it and I'll be back soon...

Hope you all have a H&H 9 months!!!


"Even miracles take a little time." Cinderella

BFP #1: 07.13.2012, EDD 03.06.2013, 1st U/S 08.02.2012 - no heart beat, D&C 08.02.2012 *Squirrel*

BFP #2: 12.09.2012, EDD 08.21.2013, 1st U/S 01.29.13 - no heart beat, D&C 01.29.2013 "Caterpillar"

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  • I know how this is, and my heart is broken for you. I hope you are able to find some answers with the blood work. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
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  • So sorry for your loss :(

    Lean on your spouse and family during this difficult time.

    Hopefully we'll see you back on the boards soon!

  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Hugs to you and I hope you get the answers you are looking for with the blood work results.
  • I'm so sorry to hear this. Hang in there.
  • I'm so sorry. I would definitely find an OB that will take your concerns seriously.

    If you have had previous miscarriage, they should definitely be doing blood work and early ultrasounds if that is what you requested.

    I'll be thinking of you.

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  • I am so very sorry for your loss.  Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. 

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  • I am very sorry you have to go through this. Take care and come back soon...
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  • I am sorry for your loss.

    I hope you find some answers from the testing.  Have they tested your clotting factors?



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  • I hope you find some answers from the testing. Have they tested your clotting factors?

     

    Not yet - the MD who performed the D&C said that we would defintely do that at my follow up appointment...


    "Even miracles take a little time." Cinderella

    BFP #1: 07.13.2012, EDD 03.06.2013, 1st U/S 08.02.2012 - no heart beat, D&C 08.02.2012 *Squirrel*

    BFP #2: 12.09.2012, EDD 08.21.2013, 1st U/S 01.29.13 - no heart beat, D&C 01.29.2013 "Caterpillar"
  • I'm so sorry ktbelle. Will they sent the tissue for genetic testing?


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    Second ultrasound at 7w3d hb 143 bpm 
    Third ultrasound at 10w1d hb 167-170 bpm 
    Forth ultrasound 12w1d hb 167 bpm 
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss.

     

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  • I am so sorry for your repeated loss. How heartbreaking. I hope you get the answers you are looking for. Prayers for you and your family .
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  • oh no! I am so sorry Ktbelle! I am angry that your doctors wouldn't listen to you :(
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it's hard to stay positive. I had a similar situation and after going to a RE they found that my hormone levels were off. With this pregnancy I was on supplements the first 8 weeks to make a sticky baby. Maybe something like that would work for you too. I wish you the best of look in the future.
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  • Oh this just sucks. I'm so sorry for your loss ktbelle. Huge hugs to you. Please be gentle with yourself. I hope you get some answers soon.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.


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  • I'm so so sorry. I hope you get answers. (((hugs)))

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  • I hope you get answers. I'm so sorry. :(
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss. 



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  • I am so sorry for your loss, and I am sorry that your doctor wasn't taking your concerns seriously. I hope you get some answers soon!
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  • So sorry for your loss.
    No one else will ever know the strength of my love for you. After all, you are the only one who knows what my heart sounds like from the inside.
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  • So sorry for your loss.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am very sorry for your loss.
  • I'm very sorry for your loss and angered that the doctor did not take your concern seriously. Make sure you get the support you need through friends and family. Take care.
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  • I'm so sorry :(
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