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PGAL = so nervous!!!

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in October 2013 Moms
Got positive test today after miscarriage in Nov. I guess I'm too nervous bc I'm carrying on like a normal day. I didn't even tell my DH. I guess I'm going to have to come up with a creative way to share the news!
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Re: PGAL = so nervous!!!

  • futuremrsnaglefuturemrsnagle member
    I miscarried early December and found out on Tuesday that I am pregnant. Have been walking on eggshells. Really excited but really nervous too. Hang in there
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  • yesthisiskim0401yesthisiskim0401 member
    I also miscarried in November. It's hard to carry on and not worry, but think positive. Congrats!

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  • RunningGal900RunningGal900 member
    I've miscarried twice and being PgAL is really tough. But my advice to you is to try your hardest to stay positive and be happy and excited. With my first loss, I was so excited for the pregnancy and then was totally blindsided by the miscarriage. It was devastating. With my second loss, I was very cautious, never really got into the pregnancy, etc. And honestly, that miscarriage was just as devastating and I regret not being happy for those couple of weeks. So this time, I'm trying really hard to be happy so I have no regrets. It's hard, I know. But there are a lot of PgAL ladies on here, so vent away when you need to!
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  • loving929loving929 member
    Congrats!! I, too, am PGAL and it is very nerve racking! I am just staying positive and trying to keep myself busy.
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  • layalilayali member
    I miscarried in November too. It's been a little nerve-wrecking for sure, but I'm still excited. Just nervous about my excitement, too.  Welcome to October 2013!


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  • losersaidwhatlosersaidwhat member

    imageRunningGal900:
    I've miscarried twice and being PgAL is really tough. But my advice to you is to try your hardest to stay positive and be happy and excited. With my first loss, I was so excited for the pregnancy and then was totally blindsided by the miscarriage. It was devastating. With my second loss, I was very cautious, never really got into the pregnancy, etc. And honestly, that miscarriage was just as devastating and I regret not being happy for those couple of weeks. So this time, I'm trying really hard to be happy so I have no regrets. It's hard, I know. But there are a lot of PgAL ladies on here, so vent away when you need to!

    This is what I'm trying to do as well. The last two pregnancies before this one ended in loss (one was a missed miscarriage) and I was nervous the whole time. It's hard but you have to take it one day at a time and try to tell yourself "Today I am pregnant. Today I am happy." 

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  • abuglioneabuglione member
    Right there with you.  Had a loss due to triploidy at 14 weeks last November and was completely devastated.  It is so hard to try and just be happy day to day with my (extremely recent) positive.
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    Congrats! FX for a sticky baby
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  • purpleflowerpurpleflower member
    I am sorry for your loss! I am also a recent MC in Dec and it was a shock for me too. My best advise is to try to focus on the good and not think about what could happen....I was really nervous and didn't enjoy it like I should have :(. This time I plan on enjoying every moment! Congrats on your BFP and welcome!
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