TTC After a Loss

I am so sad to be here!

Hello,

I am so sad to be here again! I had a m/c last June and a CP in Sept. now I got pregnant in Jan and my 1 to 2nd beta doubled and was looking great, but I went to do my 3rd beta and the doctor just called and told me that my betas dropped from 307 to 87. This time I was put on progesterone supplements right away, but I guess it did not help. My 1st progesterone was low, but since I was on supplements it should have been good. I am stopping the supplements and I am not sure what I should expect . Doctor told me to see him in a week.

I don't know what my next step is, I am so hurt and just feel hopeless.

Should I make an RE appt right away? What should i ask? I am just so scared.

Thanx this sucks

Re: I am so sad to be here!

  • Not sure what your next step should be, but I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your losses. 

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  • So sorry for your losses.
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  • So sad to have you here also...I hope you find the support and encouragement that many of us have had. I'm not sure what your next steps are but please take time to do something for yourself. ((hugs))
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  • I'm sorry for your your losses. There are wonderful ladies here, filled with knowledge and support. At your visit in a week, talk to your doctor about the next step. Sometimes a referral is needed to see a RE. 

    Also, visit the TTCAL blog, it's filled with lots of information that might help you come up with questions to ask.   https://www.ttcalblog.blogspot.com/

    Write down any questions you have, so you don't forget them :)  

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  • Big (((hugs))). I'm sorry for your loss and that you had to come back here.  The blog has some information on RPL testing.  I think contacting an RE would be a good next step for you.  You can talk with your OB and maybe they can refer you to one.

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  • I'm sorry for your loss [HUGS]

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  • So sorry for your losses. [Hugs]

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    I'm sorry for your your losses. There are wonderful ladies here, filled with knowledge and support. At your visit in a week, talk to your doctor about the next step. Sometimes a referral is needed to see a RE. 

    Also, visit the TTCAL blog, it's filled with lots of information that might help you come up with questions to ask.   https://www.ttcalblog.blogspot.com/

    Write down any questions you have, so you don't forget them :)  

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    I'm so sorry for your losses.  After three, I definitely think it's time to ask for a referral to a RE.  I hope you get some answers so that you can have a succesful pregnancy soon.

    Welcome.

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  • I am so sorry that you are experiencing this again. Sending many thoughts and prayers your way.

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  • I am sorry for your loss.
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    imageKMW08:

    I'm sorry for your your losses. There are wonderful ladies here, filled with knowledge and support. At your visit in a week, talk to your doctor about the next step. Sometimes a referral is needed to see a RE. 

    Also, visit the TTCAL blog, it's filled with lots of information that might help you come up with questions to ask.   https://www.ttcalblog.blogspot.com/

    Write down any questions you have, so you don't forget them :)  

    This.

    I'm so sorry for your losses.  After three, I definitely think it's time to ask for a referral to a RE.  I hope you get some answers so that you can have a succesful pregnancy soon.

    Welcome.

    Ditto all this.  I'm very sorry for your losses.  Welcome 

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  • Sorry you have to join us..  Hugs

    I feel it maybe time for your to see a RE. They will run a bunch of test and try to get to the root of why you maybe m/c. RE's really monitor you closer then a gyn..

    Sorry again!!! 

  • I don't really have any answers for you, but do know that you aren't alone in this. I am so sorry for your losses.
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  • I am so sorry for your losses.
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  • (((hugs)))) I am so sorry for your losses and that you find yourself here.
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  • So sorry for your loss. Your story sounds very similar to mine. I was also put on progesterone for two of my pregnancies but they both ended up in miscarriage shortly after. I did RPL testing after having four miscarriages ( 3 of which were C/Ps) only to find out nothing is wrong with me :(  So back to TTC again and hope for the best. It's frustrating and hard to handle sometimes. If you ever want to chat feel free to PM me.
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    So sorry for your loss. Your story sounds very similar to mine. I was also put on progesterone for two of my pregnancies but they both ended up in miscarriage shortly after. I did RPL testing after having four miscarriages 3 of which were C/Ps only to find out nothing is wrong with me :nbsp; So back to TTC again and hope for the best. It's frustrating and hard to handle sometimes. If you ever want to chat feel free to PM me.


    Thank you everyone for your hugs and prayers. Spoke to my DH and we are making an appt with RE and see where that goes. I am just scared.
  • So sorry for your losses. If I were you I would definitely ask for a referral to an RE, also have you had the RPL blood work done yet? If not I would be asking for that as well. 
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  • I'm sorry for your losses and hope you find the support here that you need. I do not have any advice on what to ask your doctor, so sorry. Good luck with your follow up appointments.
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  • Very sorry for your loss. Hope things get answered for you soon.
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  • I'm so sorry you're back here. (((hugs)))

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  • I am so sorry, hun. Big (((hugs)))
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses.((hugs))
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