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Feeling sneaky.

This morning I decided to start my OPKs and I got a +.  What a surprise!  DH is staying home today (again), he is still sick - but definately not horribly ill or anything anymore.  So I decided I would hurry up & get ready fast and shoot for a morning quickie LOL

He loved it & I got to say, I agree it was great too.  Lately it has been a bit boring because it is all about babymaking and the romance had dissappeared.

I had marked my chart a +OPK, then decided to take it off in case he goes on & looks at my chart. I am actually tempted to change my temp to a lower temp so that he does not think I did it just to collect his sperm Stick out tongue  I actually didn't, but sort of did. 

I also told him that maybe he can be showered with a nice candle lit dinner ready to be cooked when I get home - that he should throw me on the couch & make mad passionate love to me after I walk through the door.  I want a second donation LOL.  Don't get me wrong, I love the sex too... 

Why do I feel like I am being so sneaky???  I don't usually get a + this early in my cycle and felt I had to take advantage of the moment.  Trust me, he is very in tune with my cycle and knows I should be O'g in a few days.  He definately would not be expecting me to yet...

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    Maybe TMI - but my CM was very watery also.  I don't know if EW since I didn't test it before or afterwards (could be confused for the other stuff LOL).  But very slippery this morning if you know what I mean...
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    Hey, you're increasing your odds for a BFP and having fun at the same time.  Win-win!
    Me-41, Hubby-40.
    1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
    Dear Son born 5/28/14
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    What Qotr said! You are not being sneaky you are being creative!

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    My Ovulation Chart



    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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    Thanks - yes, I am being creative & enjoying myself at the same time. LOL

    So if you see my temp go down today, you know why... Wink

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    imageHeathernSteven:
    What Qotr said! You are not being sneaky you are being creative!

    This exactly - getting the job done and having fun in the process, nothing wrong with that.  Enjoy!! :)


         

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    Married August 2012. Me: 41  DH: 42 
    Daughter from previous marriage: 20

    BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
    June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
    Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014

    TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014

    TTCAL BLOG

    All ALers welcome!

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    Gscoville did you just add the pics to yuor siggy? I don't remeber seeing them before - great pics!!

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    My Ovulation Chart



    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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    Hope you were successful with your sneakiness and had fun along the way.... :)
    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
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    Yes very successful... AM & PM! Woohoo lol and to top it off cm was extremely slippery. 
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    It appears that Mission BFP is in motion....Lol.  I couldn't resist!Stick out tongue

    Sounds like a great story to reminence with DH in your future memories....

    Good Luck

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
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    Don't!  Def a win-win.  My SO knows when I'm ovulating because I attack him.  No secrets here!!
    Trying to Conceive Ticker
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    I know I am generally more horny that time of the month, so it is a dead give away.  DH had some "O" calendar app added to his smart phone before we got married in June, so he went by the 14 day rule (which I pretty much am - but not this month).  Once I started taking my BBT we knew better.

    I hit the ball out of the field & enjoyed more this morning!!!  This is so not like me LOL  I told him we should have morning sex all the time....  Somewhere I read that their testosterone level is higher in the mornings - not sure if there is any truth in this.

    My chart is correct - I fixed it this morning...  Looks like I am on my up-swing Stick out tongue

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    I hope this is it!!! and its great to hear you are having fun with it!

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    My Ovulation Chart



    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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    Good luck Qzees!
    Me-41, Hubby-40.
    1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
    Dear Son born 5/28/14
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