May 2012 Moms

Our Trip to the ER

Let me start by letting you know it is okay to judge me. I feel awful for what happen and it was 100% preventable. I wanted to let you guys know as a reminder to put up your gates!

A fell down the stairs on Saturday afternoon. DH was napping on the couch so I took her upstairs to go to the bathroom with me. When I went to wash my hands she was at my feet. I took for granted how fast she just started moving and I also took for granted that she has never ventured into the hall before. It was absolutely terrifying when I heard her start falling down the steps. I got to the steps just to watch her fall down the last few. I ran after her and picked her up. She was crying but stopped soon after I picked her up. She was smiling at me within five minutes of it happening but I could tell she was sore.

At the ER they did a CAT Scan and a X-Ray just to make sure everything was okay. Luckily everything is. She just has a small bruise on her forehead. We are very very lucky that everything is okay. I feel like the worst mother in the world. So, if you haven't put up your gates do it today. I slacked on buying one because there were no stores within an hour radius that had a gate for stairs. Now I wish I had made it more of a priority.

Re: Our Trip to the ER

  • no judging here...

    Im just so happy that she is alright!

    Man, no doubt when people warn you that is seriously takes less than a second for something to happen!!!

    about 2 months ago DS was on the bed (and this was when he didn't have a care in the world to start crawling, let alone go from sitting to onto his belly), I told DH to watch him while I got my bra (arms reach from the bed, where I was standing right in front of DS but had to take one step away and not looking), he said ok, but was on the other side of the bed.  Well, I hurried and grabbed my bra, and by the time (literally less then 2 seconds) I turned back around Kyler was flipping forward off the side of the bed.  Man, when you become a mother, you get ninja like reflexes! Thankfully I caught him half way down! 

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  • Try not to blame yourself. Something like this can happen to anyone. I feel down the stairs holding my youngest when he was 2 months old. Totally my fault. I tripped over my own feet. I know stupid. These things happen. Glad she is ok.
  • Awww, I'm sorry!  I am glad your LO is okay and that could have happened to any of us.  I am slacking in baby proofing mainly because our LO isn't crawling yet so I keep thinking I have more time but we should start now.
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  • So glad your LO is okay! I can only imagine how scary that must have been for the both of you. Try not to be beat yourself up too hard, things happen. Thanks for sharing with us and helping to remind those of us who haven't fully baby proofed yet (like me).


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    .  I am slacking in baby proofing mainly because our LO isn't crawling yet so I keep thinking I have more time but we should start now.

    we started army crawling about a week ago, and I haven't done any yet either... granted, we live in a ranch, and the basement has a door, so I don't need any baby gates, but I need to start doing the plugs etc... I was even at home depot yesterday looking at the baby proofing stuff, then walked off... lol... 

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  • Don't beat yourself up. Accidents happen and you're doing the right thing by learning from it. So glad A is ok!
  • Glad she's ok! It's a big reminder for us because we have gates up but they are open because of the dogs (and our laziness). She's not crawling yet, but it's something we'll definitely have to be on top of.
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  • It hasn't happened here yet, but I am sure I will have the same oh-crap moment.  Every parent does.  No matter how hard you try, we're all human.  Glad she is ok.  That's really all that matters.
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  • OMG!  Thank you for sharing!  My LO has been army crawling since 5.5 months and regular crawling since 7 months and we don't have gates up.  However, you can't put a gate on our stupid stairs because the sides are uneven & don't line up properly.  We've bought several gates now & none of them will go up on these stupid stairs!  I honestly have been at my wits end trying to figure out what to do.  And honestly, because we rent, we're probably just going to move!  So glad your LO is ok but I thank you because this is even more of a wake-up call for me to get the hell outta here!

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