Help me settle this with DH. He is calling me crazy because i booked a place for DDs party in june already, decided on motive and have started to purchase decorations. Im a planner and i already have my churchs valentines carnival, DHs big (50+people surprise 30th birthday party),in march, my sisters shower in may, so for me is only logic if im planning them all and see a deal, go after it even if its a little early...
So, normal or crazy early ????
Re: Are you party planning already ?
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Last year, I waited until 2 months prior to DD's first birthday before calling around to reserve a place for her party and it was too late for all of the places that I'd had in mind. We ended up having to rent a small pavilion at a park and it was SO stinking hot outside (this was back in FL). We made due with the location, but if I had looked into rentals earlier, we could have reserved an indoor hall with A/C instead.
So, I don't think it's crazy to plan it this early if you have a particular place in mind that you want to have the party at.
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If I had as many events coming up as you, then I would start now too! What a busy/fun couple of months you have coming up!
But I think we are keeping DD's party small, family only. My MIL has a great house for parties - big open kitchen, lots of room to play in the living room, a patio, big yard and best of all - a pool! We had her party there last year and I think we will have it there again this year.
And as far as theme - DD is loving Minnie Mouse right now (she even fed Minnie oatmeal for breakfast this morning). So Minnie will probably be the theme.
I was going to say I haven't started planning but as I typed this out, I realized I guess I have since I know where the party is and the theme. lol!
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I have to say I am a planner and I have already started as well. Last year I waited until about 2 months prior to his bday and found that I was rushed for times (I am a DIYer). So I say kudos to you for starting early!!
I learned my lesson last year and have already started the process as well! Won't be as big this year (number of people wise) but I plan to make every bday a special one for DS since my mom did for us!
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Completely normal....or I'm crazy too! We already have a theme picked out, and I will book the community pool the first week in Feb (aagh, 2 weeks away). We have several things between now and then too. (Vacation / brother's wedding)
I'm a huge planner, so I would be a mess if I wasn't planning way in advance.
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