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Hysteroscopy tomorrow! Wish me luck!

Need to be at the hospital at 7am for an 8:30 surgery! 

I called my mom last night and told her about the procedure.  Many of you may think I'm crazy for not telling earlier but honestly, it would worry her to know much of what we're going through and I'd rather have her blissfully ignorant. I felt the need to tell her last night bc I was having the general anesthesia and that just seems like a big deal.  Obviously had to tell her why; the miscarriage/cp, etc.  She was very sad but incredibly supportive and it reminded me of how great mom's can be.  She pepped me up and told me everything would be okay and it was just what I needed.

MH and I had our pre-op yesterday with our RE.  Depending on what he finds, the plan is to do 2 IUI/Clomid cycles back to back and then to IVF. 

Wish me luck!  Not going to lie - I'm a bit nervous.  Mostly because I'm being put under and I've never done that before.  I know it will be okay but it's stages/milestones like this that make me really sit back and think about how unfair life is. 

Me: 37 DH: 37 TTC since Jan 2012. RE consult and initial testing done in Aug 2012: SA fine, AMH 1.1 & HSG clear - on way to IUI but got BFP on 9/10/2012. m/c 10/3/2012 at 6w5d. BFP next cycle which was a c/p. IUI #1: Clomid 100mg 12/6= BFN. IUI#2 (unmedicated) Jan 2013 = BFN. Hysteroscopy 1/25/13. IUI#3 Clomid 100mg 2/23 = BFN IUI# 4: BFN. IVF #1 April 2013, BFP!  EDD 1/12/14 with Boy!

Re: Hysteroscopy tomorrow! Wish me luck!

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    Best of luck! Glad your mom was supportive...breathe deep when you get nervous!

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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    Good luck!!
    Me-41, Hubby-40.
    1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
    Dear Son born 5/28/14
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    Good luck to you! So glad your mom was supportive! Now go try to get some sleep and hopefully your "nerves" won't keep you up all night :)

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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    Good luck! You'll be fine!

     

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    Good luck tomorrow. I am sure everything will go fine. Try to get some sleep.
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    That's awesome your mom was so supportive.  Don't be nervous!  I've been through it a few times now and I promise it's totally fine (I was super nervous but didn't need to be :)

     

    Sending you good vibes! 

    Me-42 DH-43 TTC #1 since 3/11
    HSG 7/11 showed possible blockage
    8/11 BFP, then early m/c  (Natural)
    9/11 blood tests reveal Factor V Leiden (heterozygous)
    11/11 Hysteroscopy revealed uterine septum, which was repaired
    12/11 1st round of Clomid (100mg)=BFN
    1/12 2nd round of Clomid (100mg)=BFN 
    2/12 Repeat HSG=All clear 
    2/12 IUI with injectables #1=BFN 
    3/12 natural cycle=BFN 
    4/12 IUI with injectables #2=C/P 
    7/12 IVF #1=30ER, 9F, 3T, 1 Frostie 7/29=BFP! 
    8/27/12 No Heartbeat. Waiting to M/C 
    9/13/12 D+C
    12/12 Operative Hysteroscopy 
    1/31/12  IVF#2 ...BFP 2/6 m/c 2/12 methotrexate due to presumed ectopic
    July '13 IVF #3: 13R, 10M, 8F=BFP
    1st Beta=549  2nd Beta 594 3rd Beta 422. M/C #5
    IVF#4 in November=BFP…TWINS!!!!!

    BabyFruit Ticker
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    T&P's for you. Supportive moms are the best! Keep us posted!
    Me:37 DH:40 Married 7/2009 TTC since 5/2012 
    BFP 4/2013, Our Christmas Miracle Due 12/18/2013
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    I hope it went well for you this morning! Rest up today and over the weekend and tell us how you're doing.
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    Hope everything went well this morning and you are doing OK.
    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
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    Hope all went well for you today.  Get lots of rest and let us know how it went soon. 
    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
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    I hope that everything went smoothly, do let us know how it went and how you are doing!
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