Need to be at the hospital at 7am for an 8:30 surgery!
I called my mom last night and told her about the procedure. Many of you may think I'm crazy for not telling earlier but honestly, it would worry her to know much of what we're going through and I'd rather have her blissfully ignorant. I felt the need to tell her last night bc I was having the general anesthesia and that just seems like a big deal. Obviously had to tell her why; the miscarriage/cp, etc. She was very sad but incredibly supportive and it reminded me of how great mom's can be. She pepped me up and told me everything would be okay and it was just what I needed.
MH and I had our pre-op yesterday with our RE. Depending on what he finds, the plan is to do 2 IUI/Clomid cycles back to back and then to IVF.
Wish me luck! Not going to lie - I'm a bit nervous. Mostly because I'm being put under and I've never done that before. I know it will be okay but it's stages/milestones like this that make me really sit back and think about how unfair life is.
Re: Hysteroscopy tomorrow! Wish me luck!
My Ovulation Chart
Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
3 cycles clomid with Ob,
1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.
May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN
May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't.
February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing.
SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!
Miscarriage 4/23/15
1st BFP-8/17/12! Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US. D&C.
2nd BFP-2/13/13! Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
3rd BFP-5/22/13! By early June, progesterone plummeting. Another loss.
August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
Dear Son born 5/28/14
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
That's awesome your mom was so supportive. Don't be nervous! I've been through it a few times now and I promise it's totally fine (I was super nervous but didn't need to be
Sending you good vibes!