October 2011 Moms

UPDATE: Not the praying kind, BUT...

Please if you have a spare good thought for my friend, she's just shy of 24w with twins, and she was just admitted to the hospital, 3cm dilated and 90 percent effaced.

I am sick over this. They TTC for a long time, and these babies are from a successful IVF cycle. I can't imagine what she's going through. I am so hoping for a good outcome, but it looks very bleak right now.

Update:
Not good. Labor has stalled but the outcome is pretty inevitable. NILMDTS has been contacted and she's trying to stay comfortable and relaxed. They have decided not to attempt to resuscitate if the babies are born alive. They feel the love and prayers though, so thank you all for that.


My heart is shattered for her and them. I don't even have the ability to form a more coherent thought than that. I hate the world today.
July 20th, 2012: Never forget the day the fb douchebags tried so hard, but ultimately failed. Viva la October 2011! Yeah, I called you douchebags.

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Re: UPDATE: Not the praying kind, BUT...

  • Well I am the praying kind so I'll say a prayer for your friend. I can't image how she must feel.

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  • I'm so sorry, HA. I can't imagine how scary this must be for your friend. I will absolutely be sending some T&Ps her way. 
  • So scary!  Praying... Keep us posted!
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  • I'm sorry. I will be thinking of your friend. Hope everything works out!
  • Good vibes their way. How scary.


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  • Many prayers for her and the twins. How scary and emotional. Please keep us posted, HA.
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  • Thinking of their family and wishing them the best. Let us know when you have an update.
  • Oh my gosh, that is horrible and just breaks my heart! I feel so terrible for them and I will be keeping them in my T&Ps. Please keep us updated and I am wishing them the very best outcome.
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  • Sending many T&Ps...she must be so frightened! Please update us.
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  • I'm thinking of your friends!!
  • Hopefully some drugs and a cerclage will keep them in there. T&Ps.
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    Hopefully some drugs and a cerclage will keep them in there. Tamp;Ps.


    This! Same thing happened to my friend a few years ago and she was on bed rest in the hospital from Aug to Sept. They sent her home on bed rest and they ended up staying in and were delivered middle of November...three weeks before due date! Sending positive vibes their way!
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  • I will be sending positive thoughts your way. Keep us updated.
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  • I will pray for her.

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  • Thanks everyone. Thoughts, prayers, everything is appreciated. I'll update when I have more info. Hopefully good news, or no news.
    July 20th, 2012: Never forget the day the fb douchebags tried so hard, but ultimately failed. Viva la October 2011! Yeah, I called you douchebags.

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  • Thinking good thoughts and hoping for the best for your friend and her babies!

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  • Oh HA, I am so sorry that your friend is having to go through this right now. I will be thinking about her and her family.  Please update us when you are able to.
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  • T&P's coming there way.



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  • I am so sorry :(
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  • I was so hoping the update would be good news.  Still sending positive thoughts and lots of hope for mother and babies!

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  • Oh man. I'm so sorry. 
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  • Oh god, that's just terrible.  I'm so sorry :(

  • Oh no.  I am so sorry to hear this.  I am still sending out lots of positive thoughts to the family.
  • Thank you all so, so much. My heart is shattered. Nobody should have to endure this kind of pain. These babies.... I just can't even form words. Why does this happen??? It's so f ucking unfair.
    July 20th, 2012: Never forget the day the fb douchebags tried so hard, but ultimately failed. Viva la October 2011! Yeah, I called you douchebags.

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  • I had hope for better news since my DH was a preemie twin survivor. My heart weighs heavy for your friend and her family. I'm so sorry.


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  • Oh my gosh.  I am so sorry this is happening.  I will pray for comfort for you and your friends.  My heart is heavy with the news of the update. 
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  • That update breaks my heart!
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  • Oh HA, this just brings tears to my eyes. It just kills me when something like this happens and I will be keeping them in my T&Ps along with you. I can't even imagine how hard this would be.
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  • I am so sorry for your friend. I don't blame you for not having coherent thoughts. It's just awful and sad.
  • Oh my goodness.  I am so sorry for your friend.  Definitely saying a prayer for them

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  • This makes me so sad to read :-(  I hope she is able to find comfort and support from her friends and family around her. I will be thinking about your friend today HA.
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  • I'm so very sorry to hear how things are turning out. It's completely unfair. 
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