I am currently pregnant with our second and last planned lol LO. My H and I have been talking about in about a year after this baby comes we would like to start looking into me becoming a gestational surrogate. With all the research I have been doing I have been getting my heart more and more set on this. I want to help someone have a baby and feel like this process would be really fulfilling. However, today instead of doing research on the physical and emotional aspects of surrogacy, I was looking into the legal. Surrogacy is completely illegal in New York State which is where I live. I am totally bummed about this.
The worst part is the next town over is NJ. H suggested we just move considering NJ is literally down the road.
From what I have read most of you have experience with DE and DS but it is along the lines of surrogacy so maybe someone has some insight.
I feel really strongly about this. I love my children more than life and it breaks my heart when I know or hear of people who struggle or can't have children. Thanks for reading and any input is welcome.
Good luck to all of you ladies and I really wish you all the best!
Lucas 3.5.11
Tyler 4.23.13
Re: Surrogacy in NY
Lucas 3.5.11
Tyler 4.23.13
Strudel, as soon as I figure out how since I'm on my phone, YGPM lol!
Lucas 3.5.11
Tyler 4.23.13