I think my co-worker just called me fat - rant
My co-worker just told me that I am looking SUPER pregnant. I said, well, I am 24 weeks pregnant. She said that with my other co-worker, you couldn't even tell that she was pregnant until she was about 8 months along... but that's probably because she was always running and eating healthy.
I thought my belly was looking cute. I was even accentuating it today with an empire top cinched at the waist. I have gained too much weight, but my midwife said it was within reason. I know I shouldn't let her comments affect me, but now I feel enormous and insecure 
Under what circumstances is it OK to make those kinds of comments about my body? I am also tired, as an example, of people telling me about how I am going to HAVE to use an epidural because birth is so hard when I haven't asked their opinion or brought up that topic. I feel like many people are trying to scare me about birth, make me feel badly about my body, etc... I wish we lived in a culture where pregnant women were viewed as a more beautiful thing.
Re: I think my co-worker just called me fat - rant
10/2008: TTC W/Severe Endo
1/2010: 6 cycles with Clomid=all BFN
9/5/2012: BFP
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Cycle 12, IUI #1 - 33m post wash 10/15/10 = BFN
Cycle 13, IUI #2 - 15m post wash 11/16/10 = BFP, missed m/c, D&C 1/3/11
Cycle 15 - 18, IUI #3-6 = BFN
Cycle 20, IUI #7 = BFP!, missed m/c 9/14, D&C
DE-IVF Aug. 2012: ER 8/30 11R, 7M, 4F; ET 9/4 returned 2
Beta 9/18 #1-820, #2-1699, #3-7124
10/1 1st u/s measuring right on track, 125 bpm
My coworkers keep commenting on my boobs (which have grown two cup sizes) and saying "just wait until your milk comes in!!" Ugh. All right - my boobs are big. Whatever. You don't need to point it out.
Edit - Spelling
First Son - born 2013
Third Son - due June 9, 2018
Your coworker sounds like a ***. Can I say that on the bump?
ETA: Nope. Guess I can't. But she does.
She sounds like a peach.
Sorry.