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kendallsma53kendallsma53 member
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I am new to this so here is a little of my backround info:

I met my DH in high school and he joined the army. We immediately TTC when he first came home. We finally made things official and tied the knot 11/03/12. Shortly after our wedding date I took a HPT and received a BFP. Shortly after I started bleeding and was in and out of the hospital. The first ultrasound showed what looked to be two eggs. The last showed nothing. I went in 12/03/12 and had a D&C. Many blood tests were taken until HGC levels were 0. AF has come and gone once and due to come again in just a few days. We want to try again, however I dont know if I could take going through this a second time. I want to have a family with him more than anything!! Looking for helpful advice.

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  • gscovillegscoville member
    I'm so sorry for what you've gone through!  Unfortunately I can't give you much in the way of advice as I've just gone through my own first loss, but from what I've read we're all in the same boat with regards to being scared to try again with the possibility of going through another loss, and that being scared is normal.  My loss is only 5 days recent, so it's hard for me to imagine not being so all-consumingly sad and afraid, but I know that will come eventually.  Take care of yourself and I hope you find the healing and peace that you need here! ((hugs))


         

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    Married August 2012. Me: 41  DH: 42 
    Daughter from previous marriage: 20

    BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
    June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
    Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014

    TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014

    TTCAL BLOG

    All ALers welcome!

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  • jchickiemjchickiem member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I think that for me, I will know that I am ready again when I feel like I am more more normal/regulated physically, and when my desire for another child begins to overshadow the fear of another loss.  I think the fear will always be there. I'm just hoping that it can be moved to the back of my thoughts, rather than in the forefront. This whole process has been awful. Just take a little time to rest and recover emotionally. HTH.

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    Me: 37--Thyroid Cancer survivor. H:38. DS born 6/22/2011; BFP#2--11/5/12--Missed miscarriage discovered 12/21/2012.  BFP#3--5/20/14--another MMC 6/16/14.
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