June 2013 Moms

I think I win for the rudest comment ever

I was told by a regular customer today that "wow you are getting bigger everyday", my response "oh yeah, the baby is growing everyday!" Not going to get offended by that. Then she goes "You still have a while to go, you better stop eating so much"  My other coworker right next to me was like "Did you know so and so was pregnant also" (my other coworker) "How far along is she?" "three weeks after Amber" (me) "oh wow, I didn't know that!" customer turns to me, "She is so much smaller than you for only being 3 weeks behind" Thanks bi*ch!

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  • Yikes! How rude! I had someone say something similar, but the coworker comment is the icing on the cake. How insensitive! smh
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  • People are so classy. 

    It is just crazy to me, that people think that once you are pregnant, they can say whatever the heck they want about your body.

    I'm sorry the rude comments. 

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  • It's always women who have children also, you would think they would know better.  I drink lots of milk so I think that has to do with the baby growing so fast.  I have never been one to have a fast metabolism, I've always been a curvy woman not overweight just not skinny.  All I care about is that she is healthy and the doctor tells me good job after ever appointment.  If I have lots of weight to lose so be it.  I just wish people would think before they speak.
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  • Just tell them some people gain early, some people gain late, and some people have mouths so fat that they're bigger than any pregnant woman ever could be. I usually throw in a snarky comment and they stop chirping, but I'm like that even when I'm not carrying a baby!
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  • imageI Love my Dave:

    I was told by a regular customer today that "wow you are getting bigger everyday", my response "oh yeah, the baby is growing everyday!" Not going to get offended by that. Then she goes "You still have a while to go, you better stop eating so much"  My other coworker right next to me was like "Did you know so and so was pregnant also" (my other coworker) "How far along is she?" "three weeks after Amber" (me) "oh wow, I didn't know that!" customer turns to me, "She is so much smaller than you for only being 3 weeks behind" Thanks bi*ch!

    Yeesh! I would have been like "yeah well I'm growing a linebacker and she's got a chess player so bite me" lol just kidding! 

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  • imageI Love my Dave:

    I was told by a regular customer today that "wow you are getting bigger everyday", my response "oh yeah, the baby is growing everyday!" Not going to get offended by that. Then she goes "You still have a while to go, you better stop eating so much"  My other coworker right next to me was like "Did you know so and so was pregnant also" (my other coworker) "How far along is she?" "three weeks after Amber" (me) "oh wow, I didn't know that!" customer turns to me, "She is so much smaller than you for only being 3 weeks behind" Thanks bi*ch!

    First of all, that is super rude! But secondly, 3 weeks, especially from 18-21 weeks is  HUGE difference!! Many people still aren't really showing at 18 and then pop by 21. What a dumb-dumb! Sorry for his/her word vomit! 

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  • Oh geez....some people don't know how to shut up. One comment is enough, you don't have to keep on going on and on about it.

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  • thanks guys! I needed to vent! I bet women who are barely showing get rude comments too to be fair, they prolly get asked "do you eat"? we all lose!
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  • I've heard this a few times from co-workers just being snarky. I just ignore them. I even had a co-worker say "I can't wait until your clothes stop fitting you." I think they were saying it jokingly but its rude as hell.
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  • Oh, for Pete's sake. I have a big mouth. But it's like some people have a physical inability to not say stupid crap at all times. You should go back and pinch her. 





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  • Haha why can't they just say "You look great!"?? In one day I can hear how large or small I look, and it just makes me feel fat or like I have an inadequately small baby/baby-maker!
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  • imageMissDei:
    Yikes! How rude! I had someone say something similar, but the coworker comment is the icing on the cake. How insensitive! smh

    I agree, I'd be so tempted so say something equally rude back. 

    And BTW reading this comment had made me crave cake Smile  Man, it's going to be hard to not gain too much weight!

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    imageMissDei:
    Yikes! How rude! I had someone say something similar, but the coworker comment is the icing on the cake. How insensitive! smh

    I agree, I'd be so tempted so say something equally rude back. 

    And BTW reading this comment had made me crave cake Smile  Man, it's going to be hard to not gain too much weight!

    Don't worry; if you do, we'll point it out to you a lot.  






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    image~~Chels&Ry~~:

    imageMissDei:
    Yikes! How rude! I had someone say something similar, but the coworker comment is the icing on the cake. How insensitive! smh

    I agree, I'd be so tempted so say something equally rude back. 

    And BTW reading this comment had made me crave cake Smile  Man, it's going to be hard to not gain too much weight!

    Don't worry; if you do, we'll point it out to you a lot.  

    Thanks for the help.  A simple "put down the cake, fatty" should help Big Smile

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  • wow! I am impressed that you did not kill that customer. I cannot believe the things people think they can get away with
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