Just wanted to post in case someone was not aware that you can find out your clinic's success rates at https://sart.org/frame/detail.aspx?id=3893
When you spend so much money on 3rd party reproduction options, its good to know that your clinic has experience and success in this area. To me, 3rd party reproduction is a whole another level of expertise and not all RE's are as experienced at the process.
Once you locate your clinic, on your clinic's page, use the filters at the top of the page to change the treatment type to the right option (donated oocytes, etc), your diagnosis (if applicable) and the calendar year (most recent data is for 2010). Then scroll down to view the stats .. # of cycles and especially % of transfers resulting in live births.
Hope this is helpful information.
Re: Clinic Success Rates available from SART.org
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome