I learned yesterday during a scheduled ultrasound that the baby stopped growing a few weeks ago. The doctor called it a missed miscarriage. I had a D&C today.
I'm sad.
Anyone been there before and have advice for the coming days/weeks?
Married my love 10/18/08 | DS born 07/16/11 | MMC 01/16/13 at 11w6d | DD edd 04/27/14
Hi. I am so so sorry you are going through this. I am also having a miscarriage right now : (
I took cytotec earlier this week to make me miscarry. That did not work so my RE suspects ectopic. I had injections of methotrexate today and that should do the job. I am trying to avoid a D&C.
I hate that anyone has to go through this. It is so devastating and emotional. If you need to talk, feel free to send me a PM. I am going through this now for the 4th time. Take care of yourself and allow yourself to grieve. Sending you big hugs!
Pregnant with Letrazole (Femara) on the first cycle with DD after TTC 2+ years TTC#2 with Letrazole (Femara) since January 2012 BFP 06.29.12 EDD 03.11.13 natural m/c 07.13.12 BFP 09.22.12 EDD 05.31.13 natural m/c 10.07.12 CP 11.09.12 BFP 01.01.13 EDD 09.15.13 d&c 01.24.13
Oh and the bump is a cruel biatch. I can't tell you how many times I've tried to remove my pregnancy ticker. It won't f*cking go away.
Try saving a million times and it will update.
Pregnant with Letrazole (Femara) on the first cycle with DD after TTC 2+ years TTC#2 with Letrazole (Femara) since January 2012 BFP 06.29.12 EDD 03.11.13 natural m/c 07.13.12 BFP 09.22.12 EDD 05.31.13 natural m/c 10.07.12 CP 11.09.12 BFP 01.01.13 EDD 09.15.13 d&c 01.24.13
I learned yesterday during a scheduled ultrasound that the baby stopped growing a few weeks ago. The doctor called it a missed miscarriage. I had a D&C today.
I'm sad.
Anyone been there before and have advice for the coming days/weeks?
We also just found out that twins died a few weeks ago. I just had my D&C yesterday. I hated the thought of the process but for me, I wanted to get it over with so I can grieve. The doctor gave me cytotec the night before and I experienced what was like early labor pains which was tough emotionally. I'm ok with my decision. I think seeing my DD running away and playing has definately helped knowing that we were lucky enough to have one child to come home to already. It still hurts because we were so excited but we know that they just weren't ready for the world. Feel free to PM me if you have anymore questions. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Our 3 Precious Angels That Left Us Too Soon BFP #2-EDD 07/05/13 - Tater and Tot passed at 12w3d. D&C 1/17/13 BFP #3-EDD 12/19/13 - Peanut passed at 9w1d. D&C 05/31/13
I am so sorry to all of you who have had to go through this. So sad. I had a m/c in September, but it was early and went naturally, so I can't imagine what you girls have gone through. Lots of good thoughts to get you through. Hug your LO's tight!
Re: Missed miscarriage and D&C
Hi. I am so so sorry you are going through this. I am also having a miscarriage right now : (
I took cytotec earlier this week to make me miscarry. That did not work so my RE suspects ectopic. I had injections of methotrexate today and that should do the job. I am trying to avoid a D&C.
I hate that anyone has to go through this. It is so devastating and emotional. If you need to talk, feel free to send me a PM. I am going through this now for the 4th time. Take care of yourself and allow yourself to grieve. Sending you big hugs!
Pregnant with Letrazole (Femara) on the first cycle with DD after TTC 2+ years
TTC#2 with Letrazole (Femara) since January 2012
BFP 06.29.12 EDD 03.11.13 natural m/c 07.13.12
BFP 09.22.12 EDD 05.31.13 natural m/c 10.07.12
CP 11.09.12
BFP 01.01.13 EDD 09.15.13 d&c 01.24.13
BFP 03.26.13 EDD 12.04.13
<a href="http://www.thebump.com/?utm_source=ticker&utm_medium=HTML&utm_campaign=tickers" title="Pregnancy"><img src="http://global.thebump.com/tickers/tt1d0e64" alt=" Pregnancy Ticker" border="0" /></a>
Try saving a million times and it will update.
Pregnant with Letrazole (Femara) on the first cycle with DD after TTC 2+ years
TTC#2 with Letrazole (Femara) since January 2012
BFP 06.29.12 EDD 03.11.13 natural m/c 07.13.12
BFP 09.22.12 EDD 05.31.13 natural m/c 10.07.12
CP 11.09.12
BFP 01.01.13 EDD 09.15.13 d&c 01.24.13
BFP 03.26.13 EDD 12.04.13
<a href="http://www.thebump.com/?utm_source=ticker&utm_medium=HTML&utm_campaign=tickers" title="Pregnancy"><img src="http://global.thebump.com/tickers/tt1d0e64" alt=" Pregnancy Ticker" border="0" /></a>
We also just found out that twins died a few weeks ago. I just had my D&C yesterday. I hated the thought of the process but for me, I wanted to get it over with so I can grieve. The doctor gave me cytotec the night before and I experienced what was like early labor pains which was tough emotionally. I'm ok with my decision. I think seeing my DD running away and playing has definately helped knowing that we were lucky enough to have one child to come home to already. It still hurts because we were so excited but we know that they just weren't ready for the world. Feel free to PM me if you have anymore questions. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Our 3 Precious Angels That Left Us Too Soon
BFP #2-EDD 07/05/13 - Tater and Tot passed at 12w3d. D&C 1/17/13
BFP #3-EDD 12/19/13 - Peanut passed at 9w1d. D&C 05/31/13
Diagnosed with Hypothyroid 05/20/13
BFP #4 - 09/22/13 - DD#2 born 05/27/14
All Alers Welcome!
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!