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Thoughts about another kid

Sometimes the desire for another child is very strong. However,  my kid will act clinically insane and I second guess my desire.

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Does this mean I probably don't want another kid? It seems so silly but I think about it. 

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Re: Thoughts about another kid

  • We're one and done. We originally both wanted a couple kids, but between my pregnancy issues, my c-section recovery issues, and  just general exhaustion bordering on insanity, we're good with just having DS.
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  • I feel similarly.  When my kid acts insane, I move from the "yes" camp to the "no" camp, but fairly quickly return to the "yes" camp.  Unfortunately I think DH is done with having any more kids.

     

  • No, I think it just means you're normal!

    I am having bouts of serious baby fever lately, but then again there are some days that I am like...no effing way.

    In all seriousness, DH and I have decided that we are going to start having a serious conversation about TTC #2 in May, when he finishes school.  I have decided I DO want DD to have a sib and I am getting old as h3ll.

     

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  • I'm terrified (points to ticker).  Just like everyone else on good days I can see it being wonderful.  On cranky days I'm already going insane just thinking about lugging around another kid.  I keep thinking when they're 10 and 12 it's NBD, but the next few years will be challenging for sure.  I"m going to keep a bottle of wine ready at all times....lol

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  • I don't think anyone who has had more than one child was 100% sure 100% of the time they could handle it. If they say otherwise I call them a big fat (emphasis on fat Wink ) liar.

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  • No, that's completely normal! Everytime I see a cute little baby, I want one! But then my DD starts acting like a crazy person, and I'm one and done haha! Deep down I know that I DO want another, and I want DD to have a sibling!
  • I don't know. I think it's pretty normal to go back and forth between wanting another and pulling your "Team Snip Snip" shirt.


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