We've been with my DD's geneticist for 3.5 years and still have no answers. I don't think we're necessarily going to get answers from another geneticist, but our current one just seems so disorganized and largely uninterested in my DD's condition unless he can publish an article about her.
We are lucky enough to to have a very good children's hospital 10 minutes from our house and have access to several specialists that other people will travel from all over the country (and sometimes the world) to see. If we start using another geneticist, we will need to travel (probably around 2 hours) and won't have the benefit of having the geneticist in the same hospital/system as her other doctors. In addition, I wonder if the time and hassle of seeing another geneticist will even be worth it. I have a sinking feeling we'll still not have answers even if we change physicians.
Anyway, if anyone has any thoughts/suggestions, I'd love to hear them. Particularly, if you have a geneticist (or other specialist) who is not in the same hospital system/city as your other providers. Thanks.
Re: Time for a new geneticist?
Rose, I see you are Cincinnati. So am I. There can't be only one geneticist at Children's. Can you seek a second opinion within the department?
You know, I've thought about that, but I wasn't really sure how to even go about that. I am worried that a doctor may be less willing to go against the opinion a colleague in the same department or that there will generally be resistance to me seeking a second opinion.
That's good to know. Maybe I will try a new geneticist in the same department. DD has an appointment with her derm in February who works closely with genetics - so I might get her opinion on switching geneticists generally and ask for specific recommendations.
No, that does totally help. Thank you for the recommendation. The Clinic has been one of the options we've been looking at b/c (1) it has world class doctors and (2) we lived in Cleveland for many years, so we have several friends we can stay with. My other thought was going to Nationwide Children's in Columbus because it has a good rep and it's 2 hours away.
DS sees Annemarie Sommer at Nationwide Children's in Columbus. She is a great fit with our son. We love Nationwide Children's!
Thank you for the recommendation! I really do appreciate it. Yay for Ohio peeps on here!
May I ask why you say this, auntie? M is using the developmental group in Atlantic County for his FASD diagnosis/follow-ups. Are you talking about the main hospital, a particular doctor, the department as a whole? Could you share the reason for your hesitancy?
Thanks for clarifying! I was wondering if you had reason to doubt the developmental group as a whole. We've been very happy with CHOP as a whole (we use their cardiology, genetics/neurofibromatosis clinic, FASD clinic in their developmental group, and will be seeing their pulmonary people this summer), but just started with the whole FASD thing, and don't really know how to judge.
I can understand how it would be difficult to not be able to consistently see the same doctor with a child who has autism. We are lucky in that way, for the NF and the FASD (and our upcoming pulmonary appointment), we are seeing the department heads.