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This next week I have my divorce trial. We'll see how things go. Oh if some of you remember at pretrial we had a no contact order put on someone(ex's girlfriend told me this person molested her daughter and was around DS) well x thought he'd be sneaky and put in his proposal(to try and settle things we have to make proposals to each other, if we can agree then it's said and done...) that this person could come around they would just have to have adult supervision...anyone else think that weird? What is your first thought when you read something like that? I don't know...he's an idiot

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  • FutureMrsWittigFutureMrsWittig member
    I don't think it's weird, I think it's insane.  Counter-propose and put in yours that the no contact order stands as is.  Letting a known child molester around your child is idiotic.
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  • twister22twister22 member
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    imageFutureMrsWittig:
    I don't think it's weird, I think it's insane.  Counter-propose and put in yours that the no contact order stands as is.  Letting a known child molester around your child is idiotic.

    This.  If he thinks a known molester needs supervised visitation, maybe HE needs supervised visitation, since his judgement is so poor.

    Yep. 

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  • JennsFirstat35JennsFirstat35
    Eww!! How could anyone let a molester any where near their child supervised or not.  You have to stop this!  Whether the claim in valid or not, why take the chance!! 
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  • lookame3639lookame3639 member
    Thanks everyone when I read that I was pretty upset. I counter proposed with absolutly no contact and questioned how he thought that would be ok. Then I began thinking if he put that in his proposal perhaps this person has been around DS all along, if it wasn't an issue then why point it out in his proposal?
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  • PrincessFiona9PrincessFiona9 member
    imagewendilea:

    imageFutureMrsWittig:
    I don't think it's weird, I think it's insane.  Counter-propose and put in yours that the no contact order stands as is.  Letting a known child molester around your child is idiotic.

    This.  If he thinks a known molester needs supervised visitation, maybe HE needs supervised visitation, since his judgement is so poor.

    Yes

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  • Lavender PLavender P member
    I've never responded to a post before so you get to be my first....Just a thought, but it could be a negotiation tactic, albet a very bad one. He may figure he will throw it in there and make you "give him something" for taking it out when it's not something he really wants in the first place. 
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