A good friend who happens to also be an ex boyfriend called and surprised us by telling us he was in town. (Now very confidently one of the gayest men I know.) We went to go meet him at a bar downtown.
I'd be in the bar all of 15 seconds when he gets this shocked look on his face and says, "oh my god. you are knocked up."
I blubbered out something that wasn't convincing at all, which he immediately ignored and then looked at my husband and hugged him.
Apparently he could "sense" it. Whatever the F that means. Guess I'm going to need to call my mom tomorrow before the grapevine gets to her first. So much for 12 weeks...
Re: then the cat LEPT out of the bag
I think it's kind of cute that your friend knows you so well.
We've already told our parents and our two best friends. I'm a terrible secret keeper, anyway.
In some ways it's kind of a relief. People finding out takes a lot of pressure off of the act. I just want to keep it as tight as possible as long as possible because we already planned how we are telling everyone and I already spent all the money!