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I'm jealous (& it's really stupid)....

I noticed on my BMB a lot of moms belly buttons are popping.  Due to the laproscopic surgery I had to have to remove my 1st baby & tube my belly button is a scar so it never popped with L & never will this time.  It just looks weird. :( I kinda wish I could have my belly button pop-stupid I know.
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Re: I'm jealous (& it's really stupid)....

  • Mine is such a deep crater that it never popped with either of my boys, I was jealous too!
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  • Mine never popped.

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  • Mine didn't either
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  • No poppage here either
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  • Mine is so deep it just went flat. I'll be honest though I desperately didn't want it to pop
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  • My belly button popped out pretty early and I hated it.  I use to try and cover it with a band aid or my belly band so that it wasn't noticeable when I wore more form fitting shirts.  It stuck out and was really noticeable.  I wish mine stayed an innie or flat while I was pregnant.

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  • imagePetunia844:
    Mine is such a deep crater that it never popped with either of my boys, I was jealous too!

    Mine's super deep and didn't pop with either pregnancy either, it just got shallow and wierd looking.

  • Mine never did either! Even with my twins, it just kinda flattened out!
  • Mine just flattened out too! I really didn't want it to either. I also didn't get a super dark line on my bump...that also made me happy. I did, however, get a shiitton of stretch marks. Yay me :[
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  • Mine didn't pop with any of my kids (even with the severe polyhydramnios I had with my angel).  It totally disappeared, and I think I prefered it that way.  I liked to wear tighter shirts like a PP wrote and didn't want the nub sticking out lol.  So consider yourself lucky. ;-)
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  • imagejulesjb:
    Mine is so deep it just went flat. I'll be honest though I desperately didn't want it to pop

    This. It sort of freaked me out. But they do anyways. Now... I try to pretend it doesn't exist.  

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  • Hopefully this makes you feel better...

    mine popped and I got so many stupid comments, like your turkey is done, time for that baby to come out. No you stupid ash hole, my baby is 23 weeks old. My belly button is now stretched to the max, and goes in on the bottom, but not the top. It is so ugly and by the end I had so much pressure pushing on it, it was uncomfortably tight.  

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    imagePetunia844:
    Mine is such a deep crater that it never popped with either of my boys, I was jealous too!

    Mine's super deep and didn't pop with either pregnancy either, it just got shallow and wierd looking.

    Me too.  DS sticks his WHOLE pointer finger in mine and laughs...awesome.  

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  • Thanks! I feel a little better & a little more normal now.
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  • imagebmv1980:
    Mine just flattened out too! I really didn't want it to either. I also didn't get a super dark line on my bump...that also made me happy. I did, however, get a shiitton of stretch marks. Yay me :[

    THIS happened exactly to me, too!  Weird what we get, or don't get, but it's all "normal" in the annals of pregnancy 

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  • imagejulesjb:
    Mine is so deep it just went flat. I'll be honest though I desperately didn't want it to pop

    Same here! 

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  • imagePetunia844:
    Mine is such a deep crater that it never popped with either of my boys, I was jealous too!

    This! 

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  • Mine never popped. At first I was jealous but I got over it when my mom commented on how they look like little "peckers" popping out.
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  • imageRachaelA:
    I never wanted mine to pop because I always wore super tight shirts that showed off my bump and didn't want the little belly button knob. Luckily, mine didn't!

    Same as Rachael

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