LGBT Parenting

Daily Community Threads

Maybe this is just me, but after a couple weeks of doing them on the new schedule, I'm not sure that it's really working out. The former Wednesday ATP/PCP/TTC, now "Community Check-in" seems to be low on posts and I seem to be the only one starting it (which is fine, but ideally it would be community driven).

Do we want to change things up? I wonder if we moved the "Pregnancy Check-in" and "TTC Check-in" threads to the same day if that would help. Or we could drop both of them and just all post on Wednesdays regardless of family-planning/creation/parenting stage.

What do you prefer?

(I'd make a clicky poll, but it doesn't seem to be working right now)


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Re: Daily Community Threads

  • I agree with you.  I don't post in the Community thread because it would be the same as what I'm posting in the TTC thread, and I'm sure there are others posting in the TTC or Pregnancy threads who are doing the same.

    When I asked people if they wanted to do separate threads, several people said they did.  But then when you started doing the Community thread again, several people said they were glad it was back.  Maybe we do need a clicky poll.

    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

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  • I liked the combined post - TTC/Preg/ATP.
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  • I think moving TTC and Pregnancy to the same days make sense.  The the old school community check in would be a free for all for everyone (not that any thread is off limits to anyone, but ykwim).  Don't forget we had the holidays in here too.  I know I didn't really post for a few weeks because of holidays and being out of the country. 
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  • I think we should move the ttc thread to the same day as the pg thread and keep the community check in on Wednesday too :
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    queer couple - 32 (me) & 33 (my love) years old - donor sperm,

    Our IF/TTC journey since Nov 2012.

    Me: dx of DOR in Nov. 2012. Low AMH, AFC - 6, Normal FSH, SS-A (RO) Antibodies (Autoimmune issues), tubes clear, Sono (November 2013) NORMAL! <p>

    7 IUI's - December 2012-September 2013.  Medicated, Injected, Triggered.... all BFN.

    My Love:  (the amazing @Healz413)
    Normal AMH & FSH, AFC ~27, blocked tube dx'd via HSG in 2012.   Hydrosalpinx & ovarian cyst dx'd in May 2013.
    dx of Stage IV Endo & bilateral salpinectomy in June 2013.  

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    Partner IVF#1a- December 2013 - H's eggs, my Ute - CANCELLED due to low response
    Partner IVF #1b - February 2014 - H's eggs, my Ute - ER February 4 (10 retrieved, 3 fertilized), Transfer Feb 7 of one Grade 1 and one Grade 2 day 3 embryos.  1 - Day 3, Grade 1 frosty saved.   BFP - 6dp3dt via FRER, Beta #1 - 110, Beta #2 175, Beta #3 - 348, Beta #4 - 2222!, Beta #5 - 4255.  Ultrasound (6w1d) - 2 heartbearts!  

    We lost our beautiful Twin baby girls on June 18, 2014.  Tavin Sara and Casey Elizabeth were born at 21 weeks gestation and were absolutely beautiful, precious, amazing babies.  We miss our daughters every day and love them with all our hearts.

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    I post when I can in the thread that most pertains to my situation, but I pretty much read them all.  So I'm fine doing it however it works for everyone else.  I'm going to try to stay up on it all anyway!

    Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10 
    TTC since 6/11
    Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
    Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
    Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
    Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN 
    Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
    Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13

    On to #2, are we crazy?
    IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP!  Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
    Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat.  Say hello to Sticky Ricki!

     

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  • I second putting the TTC and Pregnancy threads on the same day and keeping wednesday the community thread.  I really like reading this thread to see where everyone is as I generally don't check the TTC thread all the time.

    I don't want to get rid of any threads as we have people here all over the board on life.  

    M & M
    06/12 - BFP!!!!
    Beta #1 15dpo - 256
    Beta #2 18dpo - 1097
    6wk U/S on 07/02 ~ TWINS!!!
    EDD 02/21/13
    09/10/12 Found out it's two Boys!!!! Sam and Jake
    Jacob and Samuel born 1/29/13 at 36 weeks. photo F489900B-BB44-4C44-ACD1-ABB73509E3B2-9032-000005E7AE7EF53E.jpg Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • I'm torn.  I thought the TTC/Pregnancy/ATP thread was a great way to keep up with where everyone is at, but I also completely understand (and support) the rationale behind splitting the threads.  We have five or six regulars who are all having trouble TTC, it's nice to be able to have some discretion over how many pregnancy updates you read and when you read them.  And I feel a bit more comfortable talking about cervical mucus in a TTC-devoted thread.

    I'm in favor of keeping the current threads as is, but putting pregnancy and TTC on the same day, and making the Wednesday check in inclusive for everyone.  I would also love if someone took over Friday Fluff for madison while she's not posting from work - it's one of my favorites.

    Themommymonster, where are you?  I count on you to start PIP Thursdays. 

    Same sex couple TTC with donor sperm.  I am 35 and carrying.  Endometriosis and DOR.
    AMH 0.5, AFC 5-8, FSH 7ish

    IVF #1 - antagonist.  Empty follicle syndrome.  1 retrieved, 0 fertilized.
    IVF #2 - antagonist.  Ovulated early.  3 retrieved, 2 fertilized, 0 blasts
  • Sounds like we should move TTC to Mondays. Will do!
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

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  • I second hlke's point. TTCers might not want to have to see tickers, etc.
    IUI #1 - 10 April 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #2 - 05 May 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #3 - 05 July 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #4 - 30 August 2012 medicated and monitoredLetrozole and Ovidrel Trigger 
    IUI #5 - 27 September 2012 Letrozole 
    BFP! 9 October 2012 Betas:- 12DPO 16; 16DPO 96; 18DPO 315

    Baby Alarico born on 28 June 2013!!


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