I just booked the baptism for end of May. What is an appropriate donation to give considering there are no fees to have the baptism there? I really have no clue.
Every church/community is different. I am the office manager at my church and have never had a donation from a MEMBER come across my desk (though people may give a gift of some sort to the pastor???) and only occasionally have seen it for a non-member. I suppose it would be different if classes were involved or you had to meet with the Pastor/Priest a few times.
That said, it is rare for a church to not need some extra $$--an offering of any amount would be appreciated, I am sure!!
Wow, I am suprised to hear that most folks dont donate. What a shame! We do have to take one class for an hour. We will defintely give a donation. We are new members of the church and like it there and like you said, i am sure they need the money to keep things going. I was thinking $100.00 and was afraid that would be too cheap but maybe not.. i think they will appreciate it. Thanks!
CougFan:
Every church/community is different. I am the office manager at my church and have never had a donation from a MEMBER come across my desk (though people may give a gift of some sort to the pastor???) and only occasionally have seen it for a non-member. I suppose it would be different if classes were involved or you had to meet with the Pastor/Priest a few times.
That said, it is rare for a church to not need some extra $$--an offering of any amount would be appreciated, I am sure!!
We were also new members at the time and couldn't really attend on a regular basis because DH was in law school and working full time. So we felt like we should make a donation that we could afford since we weren't giving every week. That said though, we also made a donation to the church where we got married.
We did 50.00 for dd, after asking around that was the standard amount at the time. The form we have to fill out in our parish is actually a large envelope.
It was never mentioned (nor has anyone in my family ever mentioned a donation given), when dd was baptised. I'm pretty sure it's rare for our church members to do that.
It make sense, though. I think when we got married, our church suggested a $25 donation for janitorial fees (for members) and said it would have been around $100 for nonmembers.
Interesting question...now I might have to ask around a bit.
Re: Appropriate donation for baptism?
BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
Every church/community is different. I am the office manager at my church and have never had a donation from a MEMBER come across my desk (though people may give a gift of some sort to the pastor???) and only occasionally have seen it for a non-member. I suppose it would be different if classes were involved or you had to meet with the Pastor/Priest a few times.
That said, it is rare for a church to not need some extra $$--an offering of any amount would be appreciated, I am sure!!
Wow, I am suprised to hear that most folks dont donate. What a shame! We do have to take one class for an hour. We will defintely give a donation. We are new members of the church and like it there and like you said, i am sure they need the money to keep things going. I was thinking $100.00 and was afraid that would be too cheap but maybe not.. i think they will appreciate it. Thanks!
BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
Huh. I never thought about it.
It was never mentioned (nor has anyone in my family ever mentioned a donation given), when dd was baptised. I'm pretty sure it's rare for our church members to do that.
It make sense, though. I think when we got married, our church suggested a $25 donation for janitorial fees (for members) and said it would have been around $100 for nonmembers.
Interesting question...now I might have to ask around a bit.