I remember there was just a post about how much food the LOs are eating now and I just re-read it to get ideas of food for DS. I feel like I am so behind on his solid foods! I buy a lot of Gerber graduates meals, but he also still eats a lot of baby food. Anyway, do you let your LOs feed themselves or do you feed them with a spoon/fork? If you make them a sandwich, do they eat a sandwich like adults do or do you cut it into little bites? If you serve toast, do you just do plain or do you add butter or jelly or something? If you give them cereal, do you just do it dry or do you add milk? I feel clueless about this.
Re: Baby meals, possibly dumb questions
C sometimes uses a spoon, but it's only for a few bites. I usually lay out utensils and while he's trying to use them, I feed him with my fork. Sometimes they go flying along with his food.
I give him toast, sometimes buttered sometimes not. He loves his carbs. Sandwiches, I'll cut up small pieces, but he just deconstructs them with one finger and sometimes picks out a piece to eat, sometimes not. I wish that he'd eat tortillas (cut up), but he tries and gags on them.
I don't ever feed him the Gerber meals, I either feed him what we are eating or stuff I've premade and froze (homemade spaghetti-o's, toddler muffins, or turkey/chicken meatballs). NO JUDGEMENT ON ANYONE HERE, but I really don't eat pre-made meals due to the high sodium content and freaky stuff they put in there to make it shelf-stable.
Similarly to the previous posters, A eats most of her food by herself unless it is the messy stuff. We try to feed Ash what we eat, but she is currently on a hunger strike....and I'm unclear of her demands. The best motto I have adapted is that I control what she eats, she controls how much, which is nothing.
As far as adding things to bread, I try to make it as nutritious as possible. Fresh berries with cream cheese on a whole wheat bagel is our current favorite snack!
DD understands the spoon/fork thing but hasn't mastered it yet.
What are toddler muffins?
Don't worry! I don't take offense. I am the crappiest eater and really don't want to pass it on to DS. I need to learn to cook stat!
LOL!!!!
I got the toddler muffins off of Pinterest, same with the spaghettio's. Both were a huge hit.
https://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Toddler-Muffins/Detail.aspx
https://penniesonaplatter.com/2012/07/09/diy-homemade-spaghettios/
We did BLW, so LBB has always fed himself, and never had baby food.
Handheld foods he ...holds with his hands.
Spoony-foods like soups and yogurt we either load the spoon and hand him, or let him work on it himself (depending on whether he wants to work on it, or wants to turn it over and dump it out)
Fork-y foods he uses a fork with.
I cut sandwiches in fours, just to make it a little easier for him to handle, but I think DH gives them to him whole.
Toast gets butter, apple butter, pumpkin butter, or peanut butter.
Cereal I tend to give dry for snacks, with milk for breakfast.