My husband has been showing signs of PPD. When he looks at the boys, he always looks like he's going to cry. He has been screaming at our two cats a lot more than he used to. He has trouble soothing the boys and I can tell he feels bad that they're calmer when I hold them (obviously because I have the boobs). He just doesn't seem to be taking joy in the small moments like I am.
It's really hard not to get frustrated because the last thing I need to be doing right now is taking care of him, but I love him and I'm worried about him. He's not totally denying being upset, but if I express too much concern he just seems to get more sad/frustrated. I'm also starting to worry about how he's looking to my mom. I don't want her (or anyone else) to judge him because he's having a hard time.
Any ideas? Similar experience?