Hey Bumpies.
A little intro: My SO and I are both 21, and
expecting our first son in just a few short weeks! He is originally from
Northern CA, and I am from Southern Ca. We both now live (temporarily,
hopefully) in Southern CA. I just completed my final semester of school
in July, and have been taking a pause on the job hunt as of late. Seeing
as though I was 5ish months pregnant when I graduated college, I hadn't
been having any luck with a job hunt.
I am now currently trying to pursue my career in travel, tourism & hospitality. We both really love Boston, and wanted to ask fellow parents and/or parents-to-be:
Re: Thinking about moving to Boston :)
What is the cost of living in your neighborhood? (median income, housing costs, etc.)
It's high. I'm in metrowest suburbs. Median Price for a SFH is 1.2M in my town. The next town over has some rentals, they run about 2.5k/month for 2 bedroom apts. DC centers in my area range from $450-$550/wk.
What are the demographics like in your neighborhood?
My neighborhood is fairly Caucasian. Age is very varied - everything from newly weds to retirees.
(in your opinion) Where are the safest neighborhoods for a family?
In the city or the suburbs? City-wise, I'd say there are some areas of JP that are amazing, Brookline is great, East Boston is supposed to be "up and coming" and is very reasonably priced.
Have you made the move from out of state? From where? What was it like?
We moved from the midwest and it was a shock. Rent on a condo was way higher than our mortgage on a SFH that was about twice the size. COL is so high that even though H is making double what he was in the midwest, the standard of living is same, if not lower. Traffic is congested and people are terrible drivers. If you life in the city, you'll have to pay for a parking space; if you're in the suburbs, chances are you'll have surface lot (non-garage) parking, which really sucks in the winter. Oh, and there's a hurricane coming and we're expecting huge amounts of flooding. Gee, I really love New England... ugh.
I moved to the Boston Area from the Bay area about 2 yrs ago. Now live in a suburb SW of Boston. Homes in my town cost $500-900K+. Thre is almost no diversity of ethnicity or sexual orientation to be found. Daycare is ~$400+/wk for an infant. I found the move from CA to be total cuture shock (note I have made cross country moves befpre and ahve lived in WI and CO as well... this move the by far the hardest). It has taken almost 2 years to make friends and I find people to generally be pretty chilly (until you get to know them, which takes forever since most people aren't very open up front). I ahve also found people here to be rather formal and uptight (at least initially). The traffic and communtes are far more maddening than that in CA. Overall, it is an expensive place to live that is hard to adjust to if you didn't grow up here. That being said, once you are settled (and okay with feeling broke forever), it can be beautiful and you are very close to lots of outdoor things to do, whihc is nice. Best of luck!
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Congrats on your upcoming baby and finishing school! I've lived in Southern CA before as well, but am from MA originally. So while I've moved here from out of state, I was from here to begin with!