If your baby STTN, I love you, but please don't comment here and tell us your amazing pearls of wisdom. We've probably already tried everything, and we're not idiots...some babies just don't STTN easily. And yes, I may be a little witchy due to sleep deprivation.
Now that that's out of the way..... who here has as baby who is not STTN? I need to know I'm not alone.
Neither one of my kids learn this skill very easily, obviously. DD didn't STTN till she was 11months. I think DS will take even longer.
I'm so tired.
Re: Those whose babies do NOT STTN, come in.
DS is not STTN either.. not even close. There was a pretty decent stretch where he was waking once to nurse and going right back to sleep, which was nice. Then, somewhere around the time he hit several milestones all at once, his sleep went haywire. It hasn't really recovered. He wakes a few times a night - once to nurse and the others just needing some comfort and rocking back to sleep.
I totally sympathize with you on the exhaustion. Many times, I'll bring him into bed with us just so I can get a semi-decent night's sleep - at least that way the chances are pretty good that he'll sleep well other than waking to eat.
An uninterrupted night of sleep.. what is that like? Between the crappy pregnancy sleep and having a baby, it's been more than a year and a half since I've had a decent night of sleep. Ahh, motherhood
The longest my DD has ever slept was 5 hours, and that was once! When I do sleep at night I think I dream of sleep! Hang in there, you're definitely NOT alone.
DS doesn't STTN either. On a good night he will take a bottle at 8pm-830pm and sleep until 3am, he will take another bottle, then it's a fight for about 30min-45min to get him to stay in the crib. Honestly we are so tired, I don't even fight anymore, usually at 3am he just comes in bed with us, drinks a bottle and sleeps until 530am..which is when we get up for work- This is a good night for us and probably only happens once a week =(
Most of the time he is up 2 times a night..sometimes I can get him back in crib no problem, other times he's screaming at the top of his lungs...I can't do CIO method, I tried and I just can't. I can usually tell if he just crying or whimpering in his sleep and I wait a moment and he will just stay sleeping..but then there is the cry and screaming that doesn't stop and he won't stop until someone comes in. He usually hungry when that happens.
I want to blame it all on teething...but I just don't know anymore. He only has four teeth, and got those at 8months..he will be 10 months next week...no more teeth coming in..and he still not STTN. It's hard...we have been trying to go to sleep with DS goes to sleep, even though that is super early and we don't even get home from work until about 6pm. so literally nothing gets done during the week, so weekends are crazy. Guess that's only advice I have..is go to bed when LO goes to bed, but I know it's know it hard. Last night didn't get to bed until 1030pm..DS was up screaming and crying at midnight for about 30minutes. It's been difficult..I am hoping it gets better as he gets older and start weaning him off formula. But you are not alone. hope it gets better for you too!
Yea, that was pretty witchy but I'm trying to ignore that and not be offended.
DD used to STTN. But recently has been screaming in her sleep then wants to nurse sometime between 4 and 5. The screaming is the worst. She may be sleeping through it but I'm being woken up every 1.5-2 hrs. Hope she stops it soon.
Married: 1/2008 ~ DD#1: 3/2012
TTC #2: Started 4/2014 BFP 7/30/15 MC 8/3/15 BFP 9/4/2015 EDD 5/16/2016
this is us too! =( I miss sleep! In November DH and I were out of town for the weekend for a wedding and DS stayed with my parents for the two days. DH kept saying we should go out site see, hang out with our friends...ALL I wanted to do was sleep...watch TV..relax with no interruptions! I got one night of great 8 hour straight sleep..second night was wedding..it was great think I need another weekend getaway.
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This post makes me feel so much better. I'm so exhausted. It's been probably 15 months since I slept through the night.
Our daughter wakes at 10:00ish and 3:00ish every night. The 10:00 isn't so bad, except I want to go to bed early and that's my feeding. My husband takes the 3:00 feeding, but that's when I can pump enough for a night bottle, which hasn't been very often lately. Our doctor says we should be able to wean her off that night feeding, but it would involve some CIO. Husband wants to try decreasing the ounces we give her at that feeding to see if we can gradually drop it, but I'm not sure that plan will work.
sigh
So who's going to make the NOT STTN badge for all of us?
It is nice to know I'm not alone. I am so tired and frustrated and stressed and depressed. I've been going to therapy and we hired a baby sleep consultant. I'm still stressed and W still wakes up a ton at night. It feels like nothing is helping. It has even caused me to reconsider having another LO - I honestly don't know if I can do this again!
I hope we all start getting more sleep soon.
Nothing works, and I'm tired, too. I feel like the last 10 months have been a total fog, and it's wearing me down. I feel like half the person I once was.
Lachlan
born March 2012
YESSS!! Haha Wipz, you rock. I'm adding it as soon as I get on my computer [bumping from my phone most of the time].
Your not alone, were not having another LO. This one has been a wake up call that we are one child family.