It's been 9days and i'm still having difficulty breast feeding, I've have been using formula and I've decided to pump and use formula. But with all the reading i'm doing on pumping i've fallen into a funk. I'm reading that I need to pump around the clock. I can pump when i get up, through out the day, and up until 1am (when little one "wakes up"), but pumping at 3am and after seems so daunting, all I want to do after feeding is put her back to sleep and sleep as much as I can before she wakes me up again. I'm scared that if I don't pump throughout the night I won't produce enough, or my supply will stop. Don't even get me started on when I have to go back to work in Feb and it's not possible for me to pump at work.
Re: Breast pumping seems so daunting
Have you tried fenugreek?
I BF and pump. I'm not on much of a schedule as far as when I do it because I've been more worried about getting her back up to her birth weight so everything I've pumped in the last week has went right back in her via bottle in between feedings to get her up.
I would think as long as you have a "schedule" even if it's a 4 hour stretch from 3-7 you'll be fine. You may wake up feeling really full. Camila sleeps in 4 hour stretches sometimes at night and if she does I usually wake up full enough to fill her up and pump a decent amount.
All women produce varying amounts of milk, so everyone will have different answers. The best thing to do if you are trying to solely use BM and build up a stash, is to pump on a strict schedule (3ish hrs) but not over-drain (which will create such an abundance that you have to pump every 2 hours or you'll be in pain).
I have a pretty large supply, so I only pump 3 times per day (wake up, afternoon, before bed). I have "trained" my breasts to produce only 7oz from the left and 5oz from the right per pump session. However, if I wanted to, I could have 14oz from EACH per session. Ugh. Talk about engorgement! My boobs were enormous and rock hard at first, but I have managed to control them by only pumping for relief, then draining the exact amount I want at one time. Like I said, I'm now back down to 37-40oz per day total, which is where I'm the most comfortable.
GL, mama. It can be tricky to figure out, but only you will know what is the most comfortable for your body and when to build/drain your milk/supply.