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Can I move into a bubble kind long vent
So I haven't posted anything lately. Just trying to deal with XH and DH and my mother. It all hasn't been going so well.
XH actually seen the kids twice in November which was awesome, but has since gone back to his not calling (he didnt even call xmas eve or xmas day) and refused time in his own home with the kids. I have to go to the town where he lives and I have to take the kids so I offered him a day and a night with them and he refused.
My mother is still trying to be controlling and take my kids (well the older two she has no interest in the baby. She barely acknowledges that she exists). DH decided to reach out to my mother and let he have the kids of a little bit over xmas since they have had part of xmas with her every year since they were born. She was told she would have to bring them back, she informed me last night she was not told this (which she was several times). Her and I fought and well she is bringing the back but she is being a major B about it.
All of this is adding stress to DH and I and we had a huge fight about a week before xmas. I just want to take DH and the kids and move into a bubble. I am so tired of dealing with XH who just keeps proving he is the douchiest of douche bags and my insane mother. It's all just getting to me so much that I think it is time for me to start seeing a therapist again and or medicate. Sorry I just needed to share a bit before facing the world today.
XH actually seen the kids twice in November which was awesome, but has since gone back to his not calling (he didnt even call xmas eve or xmas day) and refused time in his own home with the kids. I have to go to the town where he lives and I have to take the kids so I offered him a day and a night with them and he refused.
My mother is still trying to be controlling and take my kids (well the older two she has no interest in the baby. She barely acknowledges that she exists). DH decided to reach out to my mother and let he have the kids of a little bit over xmas since they have had part of xmas with her every year since they were born. She was told she would have to bring them back, she informed me last night she was not told this (which she was several times). Her and I fought and well she is bringing the back but she is being a major B about it.
All of this is adding stress to DH and I and we had a huge fight about a week before xmas. I just want to take DH and the kids and move into a bubble. I am so tired of dealing with XH who just keeps proving he is the douchiest of douche bags and my insane mother. It's all just getting to me so much that I think it is time for me to start seeing a therapist again and or medicate. Sorry I just needed to share a bit before facing the world today.
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Re: Can I move into a bubble kind long vent
She won't be taking them again as she did this back in Sept as well. We gave her the benefit of the doubt that it was a misunderstanding. This has proved otherwise.
She and I had an ok relationship until I left my XH then things went down hill. they have gotten worse since DH got together (she hates him has since she first met him when i was in jr high). I keep trying to fix things but she just doesn't seem interested.