does anyone here have experience with it?
I posted here once before. Long story short I have a 2.5 yr old delayed (in every area) daughter. She is so happy all the time and will give the biggest smile ear to ear. One of the signs of angelmans is a happy demeanor and excessive smiling. It kills me to know that they are testing my daughter for a genetic disorder because she is "overly happy" and delayed. They are also running a panel for fragile x and triple x.
It would be great to hear any advice if anyone is dealing with angelmans because that is where she is seeming to fit right now and I have to wait 2-4 weeks for results. It could end up as nothing but I like to prepare myself.
thank you for reading.
Re: angelmans syndrome
The wait was unbearable and I found myself wondering when we still thought it was WS if all of her beautiful personality was just the result of a disorder. I found myself questioning all of the things that I had previously loved about my daughter because I thought they were only a result of an accident during conception. But during that wait, I came to terms with the possible diagnosis. If your daughter does have Angelmans, it is as much of a part of her as her eye color and hair color. It is part of who makes her who she is and if that makes her extra happy, than so be it!
I wish you the best of luck while waiting for your results. Whatever the answer is, just know it doesn't change your little girl. It simply provides a label to ensure she gets the most services possible.
I have no experience with angelmans syndrome, however I did have to wait for a fragile x genetics test on our adoped son. It was meant to take 2-4 weeks, but actually took 3 months. I spent that time familiarizing myself with fragile x, wondering what life would be like if the test came back positive,angry that we were even on this journey etc. The day the test came back positive, I felt more ready to accept the news than if I hadn't had the previous few months to worry, stress etc.
Thank you, everyone for your wonderful insight. Do I want a diagnosis? YES, it would make the future a little more clear. Is it hard playing the waiting game? YES. Will it change the way I look at or treat my child? NO.
As one of you said- if she is diagnosed it is as much her as her hair and eye color. My daughter is a beautiful person inside and out and I treasure that. We have a large supportive group of family and friends and I couldn't ask for much more.
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