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My temp dropped yesterday morning, but I was fine all day and didn't have any cramping/spotting. I thought maybe it was a fluke temp and that it would be back up again today. No such luck. My temp was still down, and I just knew before I even went to the bathroom that it was over.

I've been cramping and bleeding all morning. My doctors office is closed the next two days, so I can't even call and talk to a nurse. I hadn't even had a chance to call and let them know I had gotten a BFP.

I guess that means I get to spend some more time with you lovely ladies. This was my first BFP, and therefore my first loss. Obviously, I will talk to my dr, but for those of you who have gone through this, did you have to take a cycle off? I was only 4.5 weeks if that makes a difference.
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1/2/10 ~ Married DH

4/30/10 ~ Adopted our 1st furbaby, Chloe

8/28/11 ~ Officially began TTC

10/14/11 ~ Adopted our 2nd furbaby, Mosby

10/12/12 ~ DH SA#1: Count - high, motility - normal, morph - low

10/29/12 ~ 1st RE consultation, testing results show PCOS and insulin resistance

11/23/12 ~ HSG, possible blockage and/scaring of left tube, RE ordered lap/hysteroscopy to explore further and check for endo

12/25/12 ~ BFP #1, ended in CP on 12/31/12

2/27/13 ~ BFP #2, Beta #1 - 46, Beta #2 - 150 Please Stick Baby!

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  ((hugs)) 
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  • So sorry for your loss. Hopefully you won't be back for long!
    Married since 10/2011
    TTC #1 since 11/2012
    Dx: No Sperm Count

    Referred to RE after SA results
    HSG, bloodwork, and U/S all good
    3 Non-Medicated IUIs + 1 Clomid IUI w/ Trigger = All BFNs

    Dr says 2 more Clomid IUIs until we move to IVF

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • So sorry for your loss.
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  • i am so sorry :( 
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss.


  • I am so sorry for your loss.

  • I'm so sorry for your loss...
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss!

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  • I'm so sorry!! I know what your going through!! I have had two early losses...one at 4.5 weeks and one at 5.5 weeks. The first one I waited one month and got my bop the first mo th of trying again! The second time I didn't wait but again got my BFP not the very next month but the month after. Good luck to you...hang in there xoxo
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  • Very sorry about your loss. I had a natural miscarriage at 6 weeks on December 10th. I was told to wait 3 cycles, but I have heard many others say that they could either start again right away or after af shows. You should really do what you are most comfortable with. I personally want to go ahead despite my 3 month advice, so I'm not really preventing, but I probably won't be as active with TTC until after the 3 months. You can check out the ttcal board also. Both boards are very helpful.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.

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    DH: 34 SA: Count: Good (27 Mil); Poor motility (25%);Poor morphology (1%)
    DX: PCOS-IR and MFI
    BFP #1 10/9/13 / Beta #1 68 / Beta #2 162 / EDD: 6/19/14
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  • awww, boo :-(  I'm sorry to hear this kate.  *hugs*
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    Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!!  Finally on the road to getting better.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss
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  • Hugs. Here is to a new, better year. 

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  • I am so very sorry. :(
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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  • I am sorry for your loss. This has happened to me before and we did not take anytime off. We actually got pregnant within two cycles of our loss.

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  • So sorry for your loss.
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  • So sorry for your loss.  My best friend got pregnant right after her first loss.  She was told that she would be extra fertile right after.  It worked out well for her.  GL!
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  • Really sorry for your loss.
    Hoping this one stays put a little longer
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.

  • I am so sorry for your loss
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  • So sorry for your loss.

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. 
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  • So sorry for you loss
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  • I went through a similar situation. I miscarried at about 5 weeks on November 29th. The doctor told us to wait one cycle, but hubby and I haven't been trying to prevent anything, just relaxing, having fun and trying to move on from what happened as best we can. My doctor just told me to wait one cycle so I would know where I was in my cycle, more for planning purposes than a medical reason.
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss.
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    Me (28) - DOR (AFC <10, undetectable AMH, >10 FSH), homozygous E429A MTHFR
    DH (29) - MFI low count and morphology

    September 2013 IUI#1 - Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN
    October 2013 IUI#2 - Letrozole + Menopur + Trigger + IUI = BFN

    Nov 2013 IVF/ICSI #1 - Protocol: BCP prep, high doses Menopur and Bravelle (12 days), ganirelex
    Results: 5 retrieved / mature, 4 fertilized, 1 arrested and 3 complex abnormal after day 3 PGS = Cancelled after ER
    Jan/Feb 2014 IVF/ICSI #2 - Protocol: Estrogen priming, high doses Menopur and Bravelle (11 days), microdose lupron
    Results: Cancelled after 11 days of stims due to low response and E2 levels
    Feb 2014 IVF/ICSI #3 - Protocol: No prep, low dose Menopur (6 days), ganirelex, Bravelle booster with trigger
    Results: 1 retrieved / 0 mature = Cancelled after ER

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    October 2014 FET #1 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, transferred 2 of 4 from match #1, BFN
    December 2014 FET #2 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, transferred 2 of 4 from match #1, BFN
    March 2015 FET #3 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, transferred 2 of 6 from match #2, BFN
    May 2015 FET #4 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, lost 2 to thaw, transferred 2 of 6 from match #2, BFN
    October 2015 FET #5 - Natural cycle, lost 1 from match #3 and 1 from clinic backup to thaw, transferred 1 backup, BFN
    February 2016 FET #6 - Natural cycle, transferred 1 from match #4, B FREAKING P!
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  • So sorry for your loss
  • I have had 2 early losses.  I didn't wait.  I got pregnant the cycle right after the first and then had another loss.  I didn't wait a cycle after the second, but I really wish I had and was thankful I wasn't ku.  I couldn't have dealt with it.


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    BFP #2 10.15.12 EDD 6.28.13 c/p 10.19.12 at  4 weeks.

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  • I'm very sorry you are going through this. My doc gave the go ahead to start trying again the next month. BUT it took my body a couple of months to get back to normal. Hope you feel better soon.



    BFP#1: 08/30/12 EDD 04/30/12 m/c 09/04/12 6wks
    BFP#2: 01/27/13 EDD 10/06/13 missed m/c 02/25/13 9wks
    BFP#3: 10/30/13 EDD 07/05/14 Our little dude was born on 07/10/14 @ 2:19p <3

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