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nolalove610nolalove610
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Hi, everyone. I hate that I have to do this; I'm currently in the emergency room, midmiscarriage. I would have been 8 weeks tomorrow, and it just hurts so badly, physically and emotionally. How do you cope with the pain and sadness?
BFP #1 12.17.12 EDD 8.13.13 MC at 7w6d 12.31.12 I'll always miss my bean...
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    HenHen25HenHen25 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know how to cope, I really don't. :hugs:
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    BFP # 1- DS ~ TTC #2 since Jan. 2012 - BFP # 2 - "Baby Elsie" - Blighted Ovum - D&C August 22, 2012 at 7w3d, BFP # 3 - CP - December 30, 2012, BFP # 4 - CP - March 19, 2013 ~ First RE Appt. 4/24/13 Med cycle #1: 50mg Clomid and Trigger shot = BFN. Med. Cycle #2: 6 cysts found. No meds/rest cycle. Trying on our own = BFP # 5! Beta #1 = 77, Beta #2 = 129 Beta #3 = 94 - CP - July 2, 2013. BFP # 6! Beta#1 = 21, Beta#2 =58 Beta#3 = 134. U/S shows heartbeat of 142 at 7w2d!
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    alf12alf12 member
    I'm living through this nightmare. I'm sitting at home waiting for them to tell me the results of my bloodwork. I spent Friday night into Saturday in the ER with a threatened miscarriage.
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    Sky08Sky08
    I am so sorry that you are going through this. Bless your heart!  I am praying for you that you will have comfort and courage through this time.  When I was in the ER for my first miscarriage, I prayed and the doctor was so comforting and kind to me.  She hugged me.  It really meant a lot to me.  Plus my husband was there comforting me.  But there are no words to really express how you feel and how sorry I am that you are going through this too.  My second miscarriage just happened about two weeks ago. My doctor hugged me and he was so sorry for us.  It really means a lot to me that he is supportive.  It has been hard to deal with even though I chose to have a D & C this time around instead of a natural miscarriage.  The emotional drain has been really hard on me, so I can empathize with you.  Praying that you will be able to get through this as easily as possible.  I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs!
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    alleycat39alleycat39 member
    I'm so so sorry that you are going through this. It's an awful thing that none of us should ever have to experience. Just know that whatever emotions you are feeling are most likely normal and that there are going to be ups and downs, but time will help. Once you are home, treat yourself to some wine, sushi, raw cookie dough, and anything else that was a nono for the past few weeks. I found that helped me emotionally a little bit.
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    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
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    LittleMommaBlueHenLittleMommaBlueHen member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.

    BFP #1 10/13/09 EDD 06/20/10 DS Born on 06/26/10
    BFP #2 03/08/11 EDD 11/16/11 DD Born on 11/04/11
    BFP #3 08/29/12 EDD 05/06/13 M/C on 08/30/12
    BFP #4 11/01/12 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C on 12/28/12
    BFP #5 04/30/13 EDD 01/03/14 DS Born on 01/02/14
    BFP #6 01/11/15 EDD 09/22/15 M/C 03/09/15
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    Sky08Sky08
    Hi I saw this video and I wanted to share it with you. It is helping me get through this difficult time, so I wanted to share it with you. I know this experience is really hard for you and I hope this video gives you some hope and encouragement. I am so sorry for your loss.

    https://youtu.be/EY2Yct8LjOo
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Clip Art Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18
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    nidawi6nidawi6
    So sorry you are going through this. Don't be afraid to ask for more pain meds. The doctors and nurses I've met are more than happy to ease the pain, since it's hard enough emotionally. Hang in there!
    EDD 9/28/2011, lost our little girl (pre-e/iugr) on 6/13/11 @24w5d
    EDD 3/12/2013, natural miscarriage on 7/18/12 @6w2d
    EDD 8/01/2013, D&C scheduled for 12/31/12 @9w4d
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    nolalove610nolalove610
    Thanks, ladies : I didn't mean to post and run, but my phone died. It was confirmed, nothing on the ultrasound. I just feel numb.
    BFP #1 12.17.12 EDD 8.13.13 MC at 7w6d 12.31.12 I'll always miss my bean...
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    toomanycats1toomanycats1 member

    Like everyone else I am so sorry for your loss.  It sucks that you'll always remember NYE as the night you miscarried.  

    We all get through it because we have no choice but to move on.  I can tell you that it does start to get better as you move past all the testing and sadness, and start to focus on the hope.  

    I felt much better once my mmc was finally over, and now I'm looking forward to my body returning to a normal cycle again.

    2012 sucked for all of us.  I hope you have a much brighter New Year :-)


    Me: Endometriosis, PCOS, Insulin Resistance, Estrogen Dominance, Irregular Cycles
    DH:  100% Abnormal Sperm Morphology
     BFP #1 (Surprise!)  "Monkey"- 09/16/2006. DS born 06/01/2007.   
    BFP #2  "Quinn" EDD 06/21/13- MMC @ 8 weeks - Disc. 12/12/12 @ 13w0d 
    BFP #3  "Luna" EDD 03/31/14- MC 07/29/13 @ 5 w0d 
    BFP #4  "Star" EDD 07/06/14- MC 11/28/13 @ 8 weeks
    BFP #5 "Baby J"- 02/07/14. DS born 10/29/2014 My Rainbow!
    ~Everyone Welcome~

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