With my daughter, we would totally swaddle her and she really slept well up until about 4 or 5 months when her doctor said to swaddle her arms out. A nurse at the hospital told me that the recommendations have changed and to swaddle arms out after little ones first 24 hours. I'm trying it with my son but he seems to flail his arms around a ton since he doesn't have real control yet and it seems to keep him awake. Anyone hear of the new recommendations? Are you going by them or sticking to the full swaddle? Thanks!!!