Pregnant after IF

Any success after miscarriage

I was here for only a short period of time but hope you don't mind me posting my question here. I am now on the miscarriage page and getting a lot of support but not too many of them have been through IF. If you can see my siggy, you see my history, but the short story is in the past six months I have had 3 ivfs and the last one finally got me pg to only turn to miscarriage. Now I'm in a place where I don't feel like it will ever happen again. It took almost 3 years to finally get pg. I know I can maybe try and ask in success after IF but know you are in a place where your pregnancies are going well. So I am hoping to hear some positive hopeful stories of getting pregnant after a miscarriage. I can't even believe I'm thinking about this a day after my DandC but I just want this so bad.  Thanks to anyone that took the time to read this and reply. And wishing you all the best and hope to be back soon!

I'm 33 DH is 36 
Married 6/27/2009 Together since 10/22/2005
TTC since 8/2010 (off BCP since 8/2009) 
Unexplained Infertility
8/2011, 1/2012, 3/2012 IUI #1-3 BFN 
6/2012 IVF#1 BFN, 8/2012 IVF#2 FET BFN, 11/2012 IVF#3 BFP
12/10/2012 U/S #1 6w4d - heartbeat  EDD 8/1/13 
12/26/2012 U/S #2 8w6d - No more heartbeat, MMC; D&C; Chromosome testing normal; male :( RPL testing normal 
4/3/2013 DX Asherman's Syndrome caused by D&C, hysteroscopy done
June 2013 IVF #4 planned 
5/12/2013 SURPRISE BFP! Natural cycle 
7/11/2013 Panorama results Normal!!! Team Pink, partial previa moved up in 2nd tri9/5/13 (19w) AS scan shows short cervix, 2.5 cm 9/19 (21w)  Cervix is worse 1.87cm, bed rest 10/26 & 10/27 steroid shots 12/19 (35w) DX: SGA Baby went from 57% percentile to 18th percentile in 6 weeks. Weekly BPP and NST until she is here. 1/17/18 Growth scan puts Abby below 10th percent in size, low amniotic fluid, and less movement. Time to induce!
1/18/14 2:11am Abigial Morgan is here! 5lbs 14oz and 18 inches of pure cuteness!!!

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Re: Any success after miscarriage

  • It took me 35 months including a m/c at 9ish weeks and a chemical pregnancy/miscarriage at 5 weeks to get pregnant with this baby. I know today is one of the darkest days in your journey, but yes it is possible. I wish you all the best, and send T&P your way. Hugs!
    Married 6/08, TTC 7/09
    MC w/ D&C 3/11 ~ 9.5 weeks
    CP/MC 1/12 ~ 5 weeks
    2 IUI's w/ BFN
    IVF 6/12 ~ 8R, 0F ~ Rescue ISCI gave us 3dt of 2 (6 cell, 9+ cell)
    DS born ~ 3/3/13
    IVF 6/14 ~ Operation Sibling ~ 10R, 5F ~ 5dt of 1 Blast
    Beta 1: 1600+, Beta 2: 4588
    Everyone Welcome!
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  • I know several friends, including myself that got pg the next cycle after a m/c. In my case, that pg sadly ended in another mc at 17 weeks, but it was not bc we didn't wait. Baby had t18, so just rotten luck. Wishing you luck and peace, so sorry for your loss.

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    6/20/11 mc @ 5wks
    10/19/11 mc @ 17wks- Trisomy 18
    IUI #1 4/26/12 BFN
    Moving on to IVF in July
    37 with DOR...fabulous
    ER 7/14/12 6R 5F, ET 7/17 3 embies, beta #1 7/26: 147, beta #2 7/28: 326, beta#3 7/30: 422...ugh, beta#4 7/31: 607...hopeful, beta #5 8/2: 1280, beta #6 8/7: 7184 and u/s shows 1 possibly 2 sacs! 8/14 2 beautiful heartbeats! 9/24 we are TEAM BLUE!!!!!
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  • I had a blighted ovum with my first pg. That was with my second ivf and first transfer. This pg is from our third ivf and second transfer. There are many ladies here who have been through a loss (or several). Best wishes for you to be here again soon. ((hugs))
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    TTC# 1 since 5/10
    Me:34 Type 1 Diabetes, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Hypothyroid DH:35 Perfect
    DX: Unexplained IF
    Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
    IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
    IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
    IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13

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    TTC #2
    IVF #4 May/June 2014 ER 6/4 18R 8M 8F ET 6/9 1 blast, 2 frosties
    Beta 6/18 BFFN

    FET of 2 blasts 7/24...BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w3d on 3/17/15

    TTC#3
    IVF #5 June 2018- PGS planned, no surviving embryos
    IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
    IVF #7 August 2019-....?
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss, I hope you are back here soon.

    My first natural pregnancy I had a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks, baby measured 8.5 weeks (Trisomy 13), I then had a D&C.  With my first IVF, I was technically pregnant, but with rising but non-doubling betas.  I eventually miscarried what was a blighted ovum.

    Second IVF brought me success (so far) with my twin pregnancy.  I know it is very hard to see the positive side of things or even look to the future where you are at right now.  But when you are ready to try again, you'll know.  Best of luck to you.

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

  • Im really sorry for your loss :( 

    I was not trying quite as long as you, but this is my 4th pregnancy.  My first 2 were early losses from IUI's, and my last loss was from my first IVF.  There was no heartbeat at my 7w u/s.

    I was also really discouraged.  I wasnt sure if I wanted to cycle again.  But we did and here I am.

    I found that I needed some time after my IVF loss, and I was glad I took it.  I wish you nothing but the best of luck and hope to see you back here soon!

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    DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
    5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
    3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
    IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
    IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
  • 30 cycles and nearly 2.5 yrs and 4 m/c.  I am now 21 weeks.  Info in siggy, but basically

    IUI#1 - c/p
    IVF#1 - c/p
    FET#1 - early m/c
    surprise BFP - early m/c

    and FET#3 stuck

    I know how much it sucks.  Hang in there!

    TTC #1 Since 4/2010, Cycle 30
    Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant :p
    Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
    4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
    7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
    IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
    FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
    4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
    FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
    baby girl born 5/10/13

    TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
    Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28. 
    IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
    IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
    IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
    FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
    FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!!  Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!

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    Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl


  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

    I miscarried after my first IVF.  We'd seen a heartbeat and went back to be released by my RE to find the heartbeat had stopped.  After I miscarried my body went into a weird place - including 3 1/2 months with no period.

    Honestly, I tried posting on the miscarriage and TTC after a loss board, but it felt weird to me.  I know they had suffered a miscarriage as well, but there was a lot of talk about OPK's/charting and sex ... and well - none of those things were ever going to be what I needed to do to get pregnant.

    Take good care of yourself.  A loss is hard, and while I never had a m/c from a natural cycle, I think it's harder when then there's been so much effort into getting pregnant in the first place. 

    Me: 35 DH: 37 TTC since 4/2010
    DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
    IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
    1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
    FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
    FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
    7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
    EDD 2/22/2013
    PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
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  • Thanks everyone for your willingness to share. You share my biggest fear, I don't know when we will be able to afford another Ivf, maybe in a year and then it needs to work! The hope most have that this would happen so quickly after is not something I can relate to. Thanks again for responding!

    I'm 33 DH is 36 
    Married 6/27/2009 Together since 10/22/2005
    TTC since 8/2010 (off BCP since 8/2009) 
    Unexplained Infertility
    8/2011, 1/2012, 3/2012 IUI #1-3 BFN 
    6/2012 IVF#1 BFN, 8/2012 IVF#2 FET BFN, 11/2012 IVF#3 BFP
    12/10/2012 U/S #1 6w4d - heartbeat  EDD 8/1/13 
    12/26/2012 U/S #2 8w6d - No more heartbeat, MMC; D&C; Chromosome testing normal; male :( RPL testing normal 
    4/3/2013 DX Asherman's Syndrome caused by D&C, hysteroscopy done
    June 2013 IVF #4 planned 
    5/12/2013 SURPRISE BFP! Natural cycle 
    7/11/2013 Panorama results Normal!!! Team Pink, partial previa moved up in 2nd tri9/5/13 (19w) AS scan shows short cervix, 2.5 cm 9/19 (21w)  Cervix is worse 1.87cm, bed rest 10/26 & 10/27 steroid shots 12/19 (35w) DX: SGA Baby went from 57% percentile to 18th percentile in 6 weeks. Weekly BPP and NST until she is here. 1/17/18 Growth scan puts Abby below 10th percent in size, low amniotic fluid, and less movement. Time to induce!
    1/18/14 2:11am Abigial Morgan is here! 5lbs 14oz and 18 inches of pure cuteness!!!

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  • It is hard to pick yourself up after a loss. I am so incredibly sorry for you loss! But there is a light at the end of the tunnel! It took us quite a long time to get here, complete with two m/c. But we got a 2nd opinion and changed our lifestyles and here we are! Best advice is don't give up and work hard for what you want. Sure there were so many nights i broke down and told DH I coudlnt do it anymore and wanted to give up. He was so supportive and would put down the needles and tell me ok, no problem. Then would ask if I wanted a baby and I said yes and then he told me that we needed to do what we needed to do in order to get that. He still uses that today when I get overwhelmed. Take the time you need to grieve but I also found I felt better about the situation when I threw myself into it. I woudl research, I would talk to people on TB, I would do whatever I needed to do to work towards my ultimate goal. Sure there were days I would get caught off guard and break down but its ok. And let yourself take the time to break down and let it out. GL to you!
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  • Thanks for your post! I can't believe how quickly after my DandC that I'm ready to begin again. It will probably be a year before we can do Ivf again but I'm not giving up, can't, want it too bad! Gl to you too!

    I'm 33 DH is 36 
    Married 6/27/2009 Together since 10/22/2005
    TTC since 8/2010 (off BCP since 8/2009) 
    Unexplained Infertility
    8/2011, 1/2012, 3/2012 IUI #1-3 BFN 
    6/2012 IVF#1 BFN, 8/2012 IVF#2 FET BFN, 11/2012 IVF#3 BFP
    12/10/2012 U/S #1 6w4d - heartbeat  EDD 8/1/13 
    12/26/2012 U/S #2 8w6d - No more heartbeat, MMC; D&C; Chromosome testing normal; male :( RPL testing normal 
    4/3/2013 DX Asherman's Syndrome caused by D&C, hysteroscopy done
    June 2013 IVF #4 planned 
    5/12/2013 SURPRISE BFP! Natural cycle 
    7/11/2013 Panorama results Normal!!! Team Pink, partial previa moved up in 2nd tri9/5/13 (19w) AS scan shows short cervix, 2.5 cm 9/19 (21w)  Cervix is worse 1.87cm, bed rest 10/26 & 10/27 steroid shots 12/19 (35w) DX: SGA Baby went from 57% percentile to 18th percentile in 6 weeks. Weekly BPP and NST until she is here. 1/17/18 Growth scan puts Abby below 10th percent in size, low amniotic fluid, and less movement. Time to induce!
    1/18/14 2:11am Abigial Morgan is here! 5lbs 14oz and 18 inches of pure cuteness!!!

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