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What does DH/SO say about your body?

ChrisG83ChrisG83 member
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I am still trying to lose weight but I have a chubby belly, big thighs and horrible boobs. I used to look good naked but now...yikes! Thankfully DH says I look fine and he really doesn't seem to care but I always wonder if deep down he is thinking what I'm thinking. Anyone else?

 


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  • Starry AgainStarry Again member
    My husband under duress has admitted that I definitely am flabbier than I was before baby. But he is still mega into me and doesn't make me feel bad about it at all, ever. I basically kept badgering him to admit I looked different until he broke down, lol. Then I was really pissed for a whole day. Fun times at 8 weeks post partum, I tell you.
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    Dh likes my new body. I have oobs and a butt now! I was grossly skinny before getting pregnant and I look healthy now.
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  • Dana327Dana327 member
    I think my DH thinks I need to work on it but will never say it. I think Im worse on my self than he would ever be. 
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  • nycgirl88nycgirl88 member
    Anytime I say something negative about my body, DH says "well, you did just have a baby!" It drives me nuts ha ha!!!
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  • MrschicaMrschica member

    imagenycgirl88:
    Anytime I say something negative about my body, DH says "well, you did just have a baby!" It drives me nuts ha ha!!!

    same!!!! He also admitted that I need some work on my belly and love handles :( 


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  • ChrisG83ChrisG83 member

    imagenycgirl88:
    Anytime I say something negative about my body, DH says "well, you did just have a baby!" It drives me nuts ha ha!!!

    Yep same here but I wonder how long he will say that for, Pretty soon I will have a three month old.  

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  • hboo2011hboo2011
    imagenycgirl88:
    Anytime I say something negative about my body, DH says "well, you did just have a baby!" It drives me nuts ha ha!!!


    I get this, too. So I feel like he agrees in a sense (about whatever I'm complaining about), but at least doesn't just say that 'yes my ass is fat'.

    I know he would never ever ever complain, because while I gained 38 lbs during my pregnancy, he gained 20. He said he wanted paternity jeans :-)
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  • kplaxco85kplaxco85 member
    My DH said I was so beautiful the first time we DTD pp, I laughed at him. He says I look great, but he makes a big deal over me going to the gym. So I know he's happy I'm going, everytime I leave he and LO are cheering me on. But in his defense my stomach is a jiggly wreck.
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  • hilsy85hilsy85 member
    He says he loves it, lol (but he better say that after I had a baby and got mushy!). But I think he kind of likes me with more curves now and bigger boobs. I believe him because he's constantly trying to get it on with me, lol. I, on the other hand, miss my pre baby body like crazy. 

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    Every time he sees my boobs he says "daaammnn". I have bigger boobs and my tummy isnt as tight still relatively flat but other than that I look almost the same.
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  • Rachelilly23Rachelilly23 member
    DH will make a couple jokes about my FUPA here and there, but it doesn't really bother me because he's usually kidding (even though I would agree my FUPA is in bad shape right now.) I'm working out and he knows it and is proud of me, he tells me that. He was still into me when I was 230 lbs when I was at the end of my pregnancy with DS1, and I'm a good 50 lbs lighter than that now and still have 40 lbs to lose. But in all honesty, he wants me no matter how heavy I am or how weird looking my body is right now. I make it a bigger deal than he thinks it is. He knows I'll get down to where I want to be and where I look good and feel good.
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  • cardiganmomcardiganmom member
    He usually just says "you just had a baby" or tells me to stop when I talk about how fat I am and then says "well you're going to start your work out after the holidays, you'll have your body back in no time", yeah ok. But he's still just as interested in me so I guess it's not bothering him too much.
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