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Definately the worst xmas ive ever had

macara0301macara0301 member
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 My SO (and now i guess he is my BD) told me yesterday evening that he had fallen out of love with me a long time ago and had no intentions of making it work with me so he broke up with me. He said he still wants to be there for our LO. I am such a mess, i have no idea what to think right now. There is so much that I now have to change and take care of, instead of planning for a family i am now having to make plans on being a single mom. I know I can do it but the fact that I now have to is whats making it hard. I feel so sick to my stomach and can't stop crying. How am I supposed to get through the next 8 weeks without getting so upset that it harms my LO? Being with my family and sisters kids last night and this morning was one of the hardest things ive had to do.  Trying not to let the kids see me upset and crying when they are enjoying what Santa brought them.  I left as soon as all the presents were opened because I was so exhausted. 
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Re: Definately the worst xmas ive ever had

  • shabamwamshabamwam member

    What a horrible person! He doesnt deserve you, and from what youve said you will be much better off with out him.

    Just lean on the support you have and your family. If you ever want to talk/vent you can always PM me. Best of luck.

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  • macara0301macara0301 member
    Yeah, we got a place together this past summer, luckily i work with our landlord and he won't care if I move out and leave just him on the lease.  I can go stay with my parents right now but both my mom & step-dad and dad & step-mom  are in Florida right now until just after new years.  So he and I are still living together until they get back so I can go stay with them.  Its been difficult with him walking around acting like nothing has happened and how hes not upset by this while I sit here rearranging my future while crying at the same time (trying to find a place to live, getting utilities switched out of my name, etc).
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  • lilhockeygurlMOMlilhockeygurlMOM member
    Oh sweetie I'm so sorry. You don't deserve this. He's an idiot. I promise you though it gets better with time. Just focus on yourself and the baby, and keep family and friends close.
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