Hi! Sorry to be a post hog! I wanted to start washing some of the baby clothes we've purchased/received but wanted to poll you ladies on what your plans for with washing. I've heard to wash with something like Dreft, but couldn't another sensitive skin laundry detergent be used instead? Down the road, I know I'll just be using my regular Tide on Gracie's clothes anyways! Thoughts? Recommendations?
Will you only be washing baby clothes in Dreft (or a similar baby detergent)?
If you are not using Dreft, can you recommend a detergent?
And just for fun, on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being important,10 being most ridiculous), how do view the detergent debate?
Re: Dreft and detergent question/poll
This is a great question... I think I actually registered for Dreft and will use it initially just to be safe because baby's skin is so sensitive, but eventually I'll use regular detergent as well. I know there are plenty of detergents out there that are baby safe, I just haven't researched any of them so I'm sorry I'm not much help.
As for your poll, I don't want to be over dramatic so I'll give this topic a 5... it's definitely important, but it's a learning game because obviously all babies are going to be different and each mom needs to do what she feels is best!
Dreft is actually one of the worst detergents you can use if there are concerns about skin sensitivity, as it's so heavily perfumed. Dreft has done an excellent job marketing themselves as the go-to baby detergent, which is why you hear so many people stress that you HAVE to use it.
If you're worried about a newborn's sensitive skin, definitely use one of the free & clear detergents. But keep in mind baby will be against you and your clothes quite a bit, so if you're highly concerned, wash your clothes in the same free & clear detergent.
My opinion is you should use the same detergent on your clothes, baby's clothes, etc just to keep laundry easier. If you notice any skin issues on baby, try going for a milder detergent (free & clear).
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
#1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
#1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
#2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!
DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
EDD 2/22/2013
PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
IVF #1 in August 2012: BFP!
L was born on May 5, 2013, 8lb. 6oz.
PAIF/SAIF welcome!
Our Project Make A Baby
This seems to be the consensus on all the other boards. Everyone uses free and clear.
IVF #1-July 2011 7/9/11-Started Stims
7/20/11-ER:No eggs in 4/5 follicles. Left the 5th follie intact and converted to an IUI
8/3/11-Beta #1=BFN,
Nov, 2011 BFP #1=m/c at 7 wks 3 days
11/11-AMH .47, IVF #2 March 2012...or not!! Surprise BFP on 2/19. Beta #1=161. Beta #2 305 Our little miracle girl is on her way! Due Oct 29, 2012
<a href="http://s1207.photobucket.com/albums/bb461/andersenspics/?action=view
Yup, free and clear here too. (All Small and Mighty, to be precise.) I have sensitive skin, and it works well for me. If baby seems to react, we will switch. We plan on cloth diapering as well, so the only change I might make not based on baby reaction is if I could find a way to buy the military version of All Free and Clear, which doesn't come with brighteners. (Apparently these brighteners can show up in blacklight/night vision scopes, and the military prefers their clothing not do this.)
I too have heard that Dreft is just a load of marketing hype.
Antagonist IVF 7 retrieved, 4 fert w/ICSI&AH, 2 blasts transferred. Beta #1 9/20: 367 Beta #2 9/22: 841
12dp5dt: 765; 15dp5dt: 1979; 17dp5dt: 3379...TWINS!!!!!
Our perfect baby boys were born at 36w1d!!
I'm using the Kirkland environmentally friendly (I think it is bio degradable). I use that on our clothes, I'm going to use it on the baby clothes. If we have an allergy problem, I will explore options.
I would give it about a 7. I think for most people it is a non-issue (fabric softener sheets are prob worse).
Me-36, Unexplained Infertility, DH-35, all clear
Clomid 50mg 12/2011 = BFN
Clomid 100mg 1/2012 = BFN, with Cyst
IVF #1 Lupron/Menopur/Gonal-f/HCG Trigger
ER 4/19/12 = 11 retrieved, 6 fertilized,
ET 4/22/12 = 2 transfered (day 3), remaining 3 weren't good enough to freeze
Beta 5/3 = BFP, 87 Beta #2 5/7 560.9 Beta #3 5/9 1376.5 First u/s One Baby, 125bpm!
Second u/s, 176bmp! Kicked over to the OB by the RE at 8w. Team Green!!
full time stepmom to SS1 and SS2 since 2010
married since 2011
TTC since 7/2011 (no planned bc since 2008)
HSG 11/2011: one blocked tube
S/A 2/2012 and retest S/A 3/2012: normal
Bloodwork: normal
2nd HSG 5/2012: clear
Femara cycle 5mg #1 7/14/12 + IUI #1 7/23/12 = bfn
New RE appt 8/14/12
IVF #1 meds 8/30/12. ER 9/14/2012: 7 retrieved, 6 fertilized. ET 9/19/12: 1 perfect embryo 5dt.
Beta #1 BFP! 97
Beta #2 234
Beta #3 4937
ultrasound #1 heart beat 127
10/20/12 graduated!!!
EDD 6/7/12
Team PINK!!
***Twin fraternal girls born at 35w6d in 12/2008***
I'm using Babyganics "Loads of Love" Unscented.
https://www.amazon.com/BabyGanics-Concentrated-Detergent-Unscented-35-Fluid/dp/B0038QQ7PK
I heard that Dreft was awesome for getting out stains though, so I got their stain spray as well as a travel size one for the diaper bag.
3 IUIs to get BFP w/baby #2
Lost baby #2 at nearly 12 weeks (D&C on 9/19/14)
Married June 2007, TTC since May 2010. Me=40, age-related infertility, DOR, low prog, low AMH. DH=37,low morph.
IUI#1 (Dec. 2011)=BFN, IUI#2=unexpected early O=TI=BFN. Official IUI#2=BFN.
IUI#3=3/17/12=BFN.
Stims for IVF#1 started 7/6/12. ER done 7/15/12. ICSI and AH. Transferred 2 embies 7/17/12. Stick little ones, stick! Beta 7/30/12=BFN HcG less than 2.
Surprise BFP while deciding next steps! EDD: 5/10/13
I use Tide Free & Clear. I've even used the regular tide. Bren has eczema though and once it really started getting bad I switched to the Free & Clear. I honestly don't know that it really makes a difference.
I use dryer sheets or Downy as well.
Our Journey to Brenden
IVF #1: 4/11(Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix) 10 retrieved/8 mature and all 8 fertilized / 2 embies transferred ... nothing to freeze Beta 5/10 = BFN
IVF Take 2 Long Lupron July 2011
ER 7/3/11 (our 6th anniversary) - 8 retrieved/7 mature/fert ....ET 7/6/11 - 2 beautiful grade A 8 cell embryos
Beta 7/18/11 - 149!!! Beta 7/21/11 - 311 Beta 7/28/11 - 2,000 8/5/11 - Empty Sac 8/8/11 - There's a yolk sac and maybe a heartbeat 8/12/11 - Fetal pole, yolk sac, heartbeat 8/18/11 - Baby looks GREAT!
3 babies waiting on ice
Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant
Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB
baby girl born 5/10/13
TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28.
IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!! Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!
Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl
We use Free and clear detergent-any brand- generic target brand, all, etc. We wash our clothes and his clothes in it.
Doesn't dreft has a scent anyways? which defeats the whole free and clear hypoallergenic aspect of baby detergent.
We used free and clear before I got pregnant, so no change.
I won't use dreft.
If you do end up using different detergent for your stuff vs your baby's stuff you can always decide if you really need it- b/c if your LO is sensitive to it they will probably react when you hold them. Think of it you'll be spending lots of time holding LO against your clothes.
ETA- LO hasn't had any reactions or problems with free and clear detergent