October 2011 Moms

Selective pregnancy memory

I totally forgot about the crippling lack of libido. My poor husband. I want to snuggle with him, but I don't want anything to do with anything more intimate than that. I really feel bad about it. I'm at the point where I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to fake enthusiasm just to get over the guilt. 

Re: Selective pregnancy memory

  • I told DH the last time we tried that we were probably done for the duration.... I feel sorry for him, but it's ridiculously uncomfortable.
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  • I am not even pregnant and I am the same way. Sad.
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  • Here, too. Depressing. He's lucky if he gets it once a month. I should probably mention this to my doctor in January.
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  • imagelisamonkee11:

    I totally forgot about the crippling lack of libido. My poor husband. I want to snuggle with him, but I don't want anything to do with anything more intimate than that. I really feel bad about it. I'm at the point where I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to fake enthusiasm just to get over the guilt. 

    I think it's amazing how differently people are affected during pregnancy.  I am the exact opposite.

  • imageBeesMomma00:

    I think it's amazing how differently people are affected during pregnancy.  I am the exact opposite.

    I think it partly depends on what stage of the pregnancy you're at.  First tri = too tired to even think about it.  Sleep  OP, hopefully your libido will come back (at least somewhat) as you head into second tri.

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  • It did last time. Around 15-16 weeks I got really randy. It lasted about 6 weeks & then it was just way too hilarious. I'm hoping it comes back. I plan on asking my doc about it at my next visit. 

    Glad to know I'm not the only one :) 

  • imageBeesMomma00:
    imagelisamonkee11:

    I totally forgot about the crippling lack of libido. My poor husband. I want to snuggle with him, but I don't want anything to do with anything more intimate than that. I really feel bad about it. I'm at the point where I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to fake enthusiasm just to get over the guilt. 

    I think it's amazing how differently people are affected during pregnancy.  I am the exact opposite.

    Me too.  I think we were having sex at least once a day when I was pregnant.  The orgasms were incredible.

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